My boyfriend is my best friend and my only friend. We've been together for almost 2yrs. But everytime he leaves( to go to work, church, festival) to go somewhere, where he is not gone for more than a day i get mad at him and become because i have no one else to talk to. Am i being to selfish? or Am i too close with? or Do i need another friend?
2006-08-26 10:05:29 · 9 answers · asked by lpkegirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let's get to the point
you need to find another friend; like you can tell you need someone to be there when he's not around and someone to fill that void will do perfectly.
try to meet as many as you can so that both you and your boyfriend can have some out times together with other friends or you all can link up and have a good time
I'm not saying that it's not good for you to spend time with your boyfriend.
I'm trilled to hear that; and for almost 2 years i think that is a limestone; i just think that you both need other people in your life that would be able to spend some good moments with you.
no i don't think that you are too close to him, i do know that you both need other friends.
and when your looking for new friends try to find someone that will understand what your going through, who have the same likings as you and at 2 that would be able to get along with your boyfriend.
and remember your not being selfish wanting to be with your boyfriend.
your just mad that he cant be at your every beck and call, but with someone there you will be able to let go abit and have fun with someone else.
your just in love girl
and you need to let some friends feel the love that you can give them also
2006-08-26 10:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to not have your boyfriend as your only friend. Do you go to work, church, festivals? If you do, meet people, be friendly, have converations. If you and your boyfriend break up (Lord forbid) what are you going to do? Become a hermit?
2006-08-26 17:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by trini_rocker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, you need to widen your social circle cos he appears to be the centre of your universe. Not only is this a pain in the jacksie for him, its also dangerous dependency on your part if you ever split up.
2006-08-26 17:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are letting your life revovle around him. u should have a life of ur own too,dont make ur relationship an island. i know u love him, but he's out living his life and u r sitting around pouting cos he is.
Make friends, u need 'em or engage in activities like he does
2006-08-26 17:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by fifie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way you do at times i choose not to have friends because they are to many problems and i just dont have time for them. Just chill and e-mail me sometimes you will be okay just click on my name
2006-08-26 17:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
YOU NEED GOOD ADVICE FROM A NEW FRIEND,
WHOSE OPINIONS YOU SHARE.. PARENTS USED TO HELP BUT AFTER TWO YEARS =
YOU MAY BE BEHAVING THAT WAY= TO GET RID OF HIM BY BEING IMPOSSIBLE. WISE UP.. YOU MADE HIM + YOU BREAK HIM...
2006-08-26 17:10:59 · answer #6 · answered by herbywalker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would die to have a gf who was like u, don't change anything u r perfect
2006-08-26 17:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a life and yes, friends.
2006-08-26 17:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by Discovery 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find another friend...cause he's gotta have fun too...sheesh...dont hold him back.
2006-08-26 17:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋