i am talking to a guy and i really like him... i have been seeing him for a while... but i have also been seeing other guys at the same time.... so here is the problem.. i think that he is seeing other people also but i am not for sure and we really havent talked about what we want...so i dont know if i am doing something wrong by seeing other people and not telling him or if he is seeing other people too and i am thinking too much about making things more serious... how do i approach finding out what i need to know without seeming like i like him toooo much,... OR not enough.... ??? i dont want to hurt him, and i dont want him to think i am pressuring him....
2006-08-26 10:00:23 · 2 answers · asked by *CYN* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Until you make this guy know you are interested in him, he will not know, and will thus flirt around with the other girls.
Grab him immediately, tell him of your interest in him, and make him yours. If he rejects you - fair enough - it was not to be. It is perfectly acceptable socially these days for girls to grab boys! Don't hang around waiting to be chatted up, and don't chat him up and drop hints. Grab grab grab, and see how the relationship develops. You've nothing to lose!
I suppose you will think I'm an old fogey when I tell you I'm 50 years old, but, 10 years ago, when I first met the woman who is now my much-beloved wife, I invited her back to my place for coffee, and she had my clothes off almost before I had closed the front door I'd only met her for the first time 2 hours before!. Ergo - women can make the first move, and us men like it when they do!
2006-08-26 10:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b open wit him ... tell him sumthin like " u noe u can trust me" trust and commitment is the base of a relationship so if he trusts u then he wud tell u it.......mayb he wants u to ask him .... so jus askhim dont pressure .. show tht u care bout him! gud luk!
2006-08-26 17:03:27 · answer #2 · answered by prabhat v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋