if they are two ,is it good selection or you think if we have one child is enough?if no ,why?
2006-08-26 10:00:13 · 10 answers · asked by apm_ir 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I say that a bigger force is in control of how many kids you have (whether you think it's God, nature, whatever, it's up to you). I've seen people SWEAR they'd only have two, go out and have the dad get a vasectomy, and STILL have a third child (because the operation didn't take).
I've seen OTHERS who, when they first got married, say they were going to have four kids.... only to find out they were infertile.
As much as it's in your control, I say have as many as your heart moves you to have and as many as you can resposibly provide for. If that means one, then have one. If that means two, then have two.
I, personally, would like three... whether that will happen remains to be seen.
2006-08-26 10:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by A Designer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I should be good at this answer. I had 17 children. ,1 set of twins.
Honest. I come from a family of 7 girls. and now I have 39 grands & 4 great grands. If I had it to do over in this day & time I would for sure not have more than 4 . 2 is nice if you live in the city.
2006-08-26 10:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by crrankin22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have one child, the child will grow up lonely and people will disrespect him or her because he or she has no other sibblings. So its good to have more than 1... either 2 or 3 is suitable in these days
2006-08-26 10:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by elainefromlondon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a twin, so I wouldn't want one kid. I would want my kids to have social skills and learn to get along. I want three like my mother. Two boys and a girl. But I will be happy with what ever God gives me.
2006-08-26 10:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by Honey Bee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much you make firstly to see if you can afford having a big family or not.
Three is an ideal number.
2006-08-26 10:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by Euphony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One child usually ends up completely screwed up... two is best
2006-08-26 10:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by kichka_2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think i wanna just have 2 because i think thats what i only can put up with.. lol jp i don't know what i wanna have im still a teenager my dreams may change.. well bye!
2006-08-26 10:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 is appropriate.
the kids can learn to share things. the parent can learn to share attention.
2006-08-26 10:19:40 · answer #8 · answered by tania_la_nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have as many as you can love and afford.
2006-08-26 10:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
12323901489282582852480586904, and thats just one wife of my herim...
2006-08-26 10:06:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋