to hold my hand and kiss me without sayign it
2006-08-26 09:52:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I HAVE THE EXACT SAME PROBLEM. HE IS NOT COMFORTABLE WITH SUCH THINGS. I FEEL AS IF IT IS ME (that he is not wanting to hold MY hand , etc.) but that maybe he would be more open to things like that if he were with someone else. he says that that is not it. ALL WE HAVE TO DO IS BE A LITTLE LESS AVAILABLE AND CONSIDER THE POSSIBILITY THAT THIS IS NOT THE MAN WE WANT TO FEEL CHERISHED BY. HE MAY LOVE AND NEED YOU. BUT THAT THERE MAY BE SOMEONE ELSE OUT THERE. SOME ONE THAT ONE DAY MAY TAKE OUR HAND WITH OUT REQUEST. DONT TRY TO CHANGE HIM. JUST BE YOURSELF.
2006-08-26 10:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by tbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are out with him, comment on someone else that is holding hands in public. Tell him that you find that a demonstration of someones affection. It's like telling others that you really like that person and being with them. He should get the hint. If not, it just might not be his cup of tea. Doesn't make him bad but if that is important to you, he may not be the one.
2006-08-26 17:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by SAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just go for it. kiss him when the time is right. hold his hand in public and let everybody know that he's YOUR MAN!!!
2006-08-26 17:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by myjamai05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you 12 ?
2006-08-26 16:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by sndprssr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see someone else doing it say isn't that nice.....also do it first maybe he'll get the hint.
2006-08-26 16:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by frazermint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok all you need to do is flirt just keep flirten then like give your self to him and then back away a little that tends to work!!!
2006-08-26 16:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do it first
2006-08-26 16:54:53 · answer #7 · answered by ~BANG I'm Dead~ <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grab his hand and pull him close. if he backs away, maybe you should move on!
2006-08-26 16:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by copaceticlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it yourself, men need a lead. you know they're not that smart.
2006-08-26 16:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Loving*Steph♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to train him! And believe me, you can do it cuz you have what he wants.
2006-08-26 16:56:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋