well yesterday my boyfriend dumped me and when i went to a football game wit my friends I saw him flirting with a bunch of other girls
what should i do
2006-08-26 09:42:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, there's not really anything you can do. I wish I could help more. And I'm truly sorry. I hope you'll feel better about it soon!
2006-08-26 09:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its always tough to have a broken heart....what I like to do is have a girls night out with all my friends! then when you walk by him say hi dont let him know your hurt that is the first step in taking to feeling better... I am not saying to have any conversations or anything just a simple hi when you see each other....then he will know you are being maure about the situation...and you wont get a bad reputation....then when you are ready you can start to flirt with other guys....if the guy was flirting with other girls ur better off without him...I know you must hear that a lot but hey its true!
2006-08-26 16:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you really sure of he dumping you???... or that flirting with other girls thingie..... he might have just been teasing you.... anyways if he really did.... m sorry to hear that....
Now what you can do about it!!!..... nothing..... because you should not need to..... if you know what i mean.... He is not the one to be blamed...... well in a way he is to be.... but my point is..... are YOU really that weak that anybody can play with you!!!... does he have the right to ruin your life???.... no... nobody.... it is you who make other people so important for yourself...... DONT
Why are you upset???...... Why is your "mood" dependant on a guy who dumped you??? dont let his thought affect your life.... You have a life to live, dont give it up for somebody who doesnt even know that he is the cause...... right??? Dont lose your self-respect for him. Be strong. Forget his thought!!! Dont make the memories bother you.... alright???.... remember one thing only..... Its not him.... Its YOU and only YOU who can fix it for yourself, and you are to be blamed if you fail...... Your life should be in your hands... aight???
I know it is kinda hard...... in the beginning at least.... to realize all this....... but the earlier you get over it..... the better off you gonna be!!!
(Sorry if I offended you or your "boyfriend")
2006-08-26 17:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Awais 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on if he dumped you and then 4 hours later you saw him flirting with other girls at a football game then he is a pig and you deserve better then that girl ;) email me sometime at billyslil_princess@yahoo.com
2006-08-26 16:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's his loss, not yours. As for you and your heart ache.... time will heal. It's time to move on. The sooner you do the faster the healing process. When one door closes another will open to bigger and better things. Some where out there is a wonderful young man waiting for you to find him. He will be so great you will wonder what you even saw in this guy you yearn for right now. Learn from this experience so you will be able to pass your knowledge on to your daughters or sons when they are your age and heart broken.
2006-08-26 16:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you can do is leave the past in the past. He chose not to be with anymore, his lost and lot yours. This is a new school year and you will find you another boyfriend. And, when you see your ex kill him with kindness by saying Hello and kept it moving. You will give over him and this is not the last broke up your going to encounter in your life; so live life and have fun. Peace
2006-08-26 16:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by JO`NAE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A broken heart is the worst feeling a young person can go through, don't give him the benefit of crying over him, he will probably use that. Sometimes it takes a couple of broken hearts to get to the one u are meant to be with.
2006-08-26 16:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by Heartful_poet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Study. Get good grades. Go to college. Meet Mr. Right. Get married. Have fun. Have children. From there, you will find the way.
2006-08-26 16:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by An Unhappy Yahoo User 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so why did boyfriend dump you any reasonn did he just walk away and say adious have a nice day?? wasent you doing the big bang in bed long enough with boyfriend?? get him aside with a gorlfriend of youurs and slap his face really hard and say thanks for memories you bastard it sounds like he eas cheating on you big time here doing the big bang with other bimbos here hons!! anyways gather up your courage grab one of your girlfriends walk upp to him and smash him in the face slap the pis out of the bastard!!
2006-08-26 16:48:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, so you were good enough to date over summer vacation, but when school started back he wanted to talk to other girls. I'd tell all my girl friends that he has erectile dysfunction,LOL or a little penis.
2006-08-26 16:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by Honey Bee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋