i know this guy for 4 years we are really close friends and we have dated a couple of time but he dumped me 3 times and each time i kept going back to him... now we arent together but each time i go out with another guy i dont stop thinking about him i cant forget about him even if he was a total jerk with me....we still talk and when he says to me i love u (but as a sister)it kinda hurts me and i cant tell him i dont wanna loose him.... wat should i do? i need help plz someone help me
2006-08-26 09:41:52 · 14 answers · asked by elfylebanese 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when u talk to him privatly next time, let it all out. That will help a lot and u will know his true feeling 4 u and u will know his
2006-08-26 09:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't expect a different result if you keep doing all of the same things. He has clearly told you he doesn't want a romantic involvement and if the continued interaction hurts you and you still stay involved, it's like an addiction and the most effective way to stop that addiction is to cut off ALL interaction and ALL contact with him cold turkey.
2006-08-26 09:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by shar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date date date. And get ride of anything that reminds you of him. Also don;t talk to him or call him. You will be better off without him And with sombody that cares for you. Ditch the zero and go find your hero. Can you dig it.
2006-08-26 09:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by Butz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the reason he doing this to u is because he know that u still want him u need to show him that u don't need him and watch how fast he wants u i went through the same thing and once i showed the boy i didn't want him he was all over me and i got a better boyfriend
2006-08-26 09:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by mrsbanks0304 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yr still interested in him cause of rejection. try to get over him by REALLY realizing that he's an @ss.some people are not ment to be together. don't tell him anything, won't do any good. if u don't wanna lose him, get over him and be his friend.
2006-08-26 09:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by disco ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just forget about him. You shouldn't even waste your time thinking about someone who treats you so badly.
2006-08-26 09:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him go, if it's to hard to be around him stop talking to him. That's not healthy. I mean you want more and he doesn't, it almost seems like you are being strung around.
2006-08-26 09:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by firefrost8k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i where you i would let him know that he is missing with your emotions and he needs to decide where your guys relationship is going if it just friends make him give you space
2006-08-26 09:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by MICHELE w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out what you wanna do
2006-08-26 09:44:16 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a guy just as good
2006-08-26 09:44:48 · answer #10 · answered by cliona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋