Im mid 20's straight guy involved in a friendship with younger female who is a lesbian which is alsome, but its odd for me 'coz
i've always been looking for single woman I don't care drugs & drinks Im not club person so its not to often im with a girl.
so part of me wants to good friends with her we have good sparks I fell theirs something more, she on the other wants to good friends. She claims she born lesbian she dosen't feel for guys but feels more like a tomboy, she hot for a next door gurl, I just feel that this can't be it,or Im just fooling my self. I have no problems with lesbian just want some action love & more of course most guys want to bang gurls its in every guys mind but also for me I want more. Ive know her few months we've talk
alot but dirty stuff like she trying to a feel for me, like mitebe something more & being caution what she does playing it safe.
PS. just trying to get guide informtion thanx
2006-08-26 08:21:20 · 5 answers · asked by M B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might not like this answer, but:
1. Either she really is totally a lesbian, in which case your efforts would obviously be better spent elsewhere, or
2. This lesbian thing is her way of keeping a safety net between the two of you, in which case you should find somebody less silly, dishonest, and trifling.
Sorry, but if you're in your mid twenties like I am you should be keeping your options open and seeing what the whole world has to offer. The time you spent with this girl keeping you at arms length for whatever reason is time you could have been running into a really great girl who would love to be with you. Who knows? Maybe if you stopped playing along her tune might change and (surprise surprise) she won't be as much of a lesbian as she thought.......
2006-08-26 08:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, always remember that she is a lesbian and her propensity to prefer women is not going to change. Even if you two began dating - if she met a girl she really wanted a relationship with - she would be gone in an instant citing that you knew when you got into it that she was a lesbian.
If you want a really good guide watch Chasing Amy.
Good luck.
2006-08-26 08:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by theprincesskgb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just a guy who gets off thinking about 2 women together; you can't force what's not meant to be unless she's bisexual and goes both ways; either way, just keep her as a friend!
2006-08-26 08:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by sweet ivy lyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tricky situation, the truth is she will prob never go with you and you could damage your friendship
2006-08-26 08:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hope that she is bisexual. if not, then try to be better friends with her, but thats about as close as your gonna get sorry. good luck
2006-08-26 08:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by Zoey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋