As many of you know, women can get attitudes with their men when their hormones are fluctuating. I understand that emotions can change but actions do not need be affected by emotions. Nevertheless, I was thinking about giving my girlfriend GBP's (Good Behavior Points) for being sweet and not having bad attitudes or throwing temper tantrums. I think this will motivate her to act right. My idea is that if she earned 100 GBP's I could give her 20 dollars or maybe take her out to a nice restaurant. However, if she had a negative total of GBP's (say for being moody and getting a bad attitude) she would have to write a paper saying why it is not beneficial for our relationship for her to do that and why she is sorry. Is this a good idea?
2006-08-26 08:09:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What the hell you talking about. Sounds like the prison system of Behaviour Reports and you get either good BR's or bad BR's. This is not sane in a relationship let alone a prison setting. Grow up and realize that you also probably appear to her on many occasions as moody, beligerent etc.
2006-08-26 08:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't have self assurance which you may surely try some thing that absurd to a girl. in case you're relatively finding for a mechanism to attain a point of obedience, I advise this. first and premiere it is going to be some thing which you will settle for besides. in case you have chose to punish her, then you certainly must additionally assume to be punished interior the comparable way. this style you will continually be cognizant of the point of administration that each and each of you have is equivalent, and which will keep the punishment to a sane point. Rewards must be treating her like the female she is, with a severe high quality romantic dinner and a calming rub down without looking forward to something in return. this could merely advance your dating, and permit you to maintain a girl chum
2016-12-11 15:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by hirschfeld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to pay your g/f for good behavior and punish her for bad. Sounds like you need to explore D/s and get a handle on your need to control another person in this way. You will find satisfaction in the lifestyle domination of a submissive who's goal in life is to make you happy.
Otherwise, I hope she dumps your butt as fast as she can.
2006-08-26 08:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good idea of you want to lose your girlfriend!! Have a few control issues, there do we?
Does your mama do this to you? How does it make you feel? Loved, wanted, and supported, or manipulated and childish?
2006-08-26 08:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by gift_of_the_dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that is not a good idea. why would she want money from you? she just needs your love and support to help her get through tough emotional times and shouldnt be "punished" for having to go through this.
2006-08-26 08:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by ::Hannah:: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you her freaking parents, come on that is not a good idea if my bf suggested that to me, I would B***h slap him, your not her mom or her dad, she is a human being, and makes mistakes just like you
2006-08-26 08:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by Kayleighs Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋