My boyfriend just broke up with me Thursday. We had been going out for a year, but we have known each other for a very long time (can't really say how long). I have liked him for almost the whole time. It started as puppy dog love and turned out to be love that lasts forever. But now forever is over. I have to get over him, actually I need to get over him but each day it just gets worse. How do can I get over him?
2006-08-26 07:56:38 · 10 answers · asked by Kagome 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know how to tell you this. You don't. I lost the love of my life and we broke up and I thought eventually I'd get over it. I never did. Believe it or not 5 years later, way after school, we got back together. So my question to you is. Is forever REALLY over? Are you sure? Maybe you just need to be patient? I don't know, I never thought that way. You can make it hurt less by hoping though. I'm sorry for you. It is a hurt that they don't make a drug for.
2006-08-26 08:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest with you, you never really forget or get over someone you once loved. Here is somthing to think about. I will leave you with this quote and maybe it will help you out!
“As I look back on all that's happened..growing up, growing together, changing you, changing me -- there were times when we dreamed together, when we laughed and cried together. As I look back on those days, I realize how much I truly miss you and how much I truly love you. The past may be gone forever..and whatever the future holds, our todays make the memories of tomorrow. So, my lifetime friend, it is with all my heart that I send you my love, hoping that you'll always carry my smile with you, for all we have meant to each other and for whatever the future may hold.”
2006-08-26 15:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by abeautifullie79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will get better, it just takes time.............and a lot more than you want it to. It will seem like forever, but actually, it gets a little less each day.........especially if you move on with your life. Go out with friends, laugh, and try to enjoy life. Before you know it, you'll be over him. Good Luck!!
2006-08-26 15:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves u he will retrurn back if he dosent he was not meant for u and dosent deserve u so be happy u got out of wrong relationship and thank god
2006-08-26 15:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by chetnand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard but you have to be strong only you know what you need to do in your heart. Cry if you need to let it all out.
2006-08-26 15:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by Unknown_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find the solution, let me know! I'm in the same boat as you.
2006-08-26 15:05:28 · answer #6 · answered by PD GAL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the only healer, give yourself time to work through this, you will get through it.
2006-08-26 15:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut off communications with him.... GO OUT ALLLLLLLOOOOTTTTT have fun parties(dunt have toooo much fun, if u kno wat i mean) and date others altho u dunt wana date them jus use them to forget bout him u myte end up falling in love again always happens and go clubbin jus enjoy life stufff ull get over him dunt wory... good luck :)
2006-08-26 15:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time.
Any time you feel the urge to contact him, call one of your friends immediately.
2006-08-26 14:59:55 · answer #9 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find another guy.
2006-08-26 15:03:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋