There was a guy that I talk to on the phone at work. Sometimes during our conversation we flirt. He has asked questions and I responded so he knows I am not involved. Last week for work I went out of state to a conference that he was also attending. That night he asked me to go out with a group of his coworkers (there were women there too). His friends were respectful, attentive and friendly but by the end of the night one of his coworker asked me if I am alone by choice. One asked "so do you go out a lot on dates" they asked me what movies I liked to see, and asked a lot of questions about my likes and dislikes. With the exception the first guy, all of them were married. Although I wear an engagement ring on my finger (don't ask me why) and I don't think I was overly friendly that night they seemed to all know I was not engaged, married or in a relationship. Did they assume because I was friendly that I am not involved?
2006-08-26 07:37:06 · 8 answers · asked by shar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok they didn't ask u about how is ur bf doing or is ur bf with ya or such a question like that!! so i gues that it was just a normal conversation nothing harmful done right! i gues that men there was just trying to see if they can come to u and have one night stand or anything but with ur way u stopped that attitude and about men notice the engagement rings and stuff sorry i never notice and i don't know about others if they do notice or not but anyway no worries nothing happeend and always try to act like oh do u see this ring it is the ring my fiance gave to me that wil make them really notice that u r taken and nothing bad wil come t thewir heads hope that helps u out:)
2006-08-26 07:49:35 · answer #1 · answered by joe m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, the engagement ring it actulla ( believe it or not ) attracts guys. Why i don't know but it does.. If you were not overly friendly it was probably because sometimes when you get alot of question like that from people you don't know it tends to make you feel badgered and defensive..
2006-08-26 07:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by aintlovegrand78 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys don't pay too much attention to whether a woman has a ring on her finger. They just wanted to flirt.
2006-08-26 07:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by stevis78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that guy you talked to on the phone probably told them all that you were not involved with anyone
2006-08-26 07:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by Davy D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well your character is a becon, it signal others what you relally are. you must have exposed yourself. Ring won't help mos of the time.
2006-08-26 07:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by DEUCN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy that you talked on the phone told them
2006-08-26 07:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by ancutzica 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They probably just liked you.
2006-08-26 07:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we just know its a male esp thing.
2006-08-26 07:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by broadway_boy7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋