iam unable to control my sorrow pls help me out to come out from this?

Question

Our 7 year old pomeranien Dog died today evening.his name is chintu.he was very funny, active and very intelligent too. he was always kind to every one including all animals.he love children very much and he often use to play with them.At present i am far away from my parents.he live with my parents.my husband didn't come yet from office.our whole family is in sorrow on this bad thing. we all love our chintu very much infact we never treated him as an animal we treated him as one of our family member.i dont know why god curse us this much badly.i became totally mental.i cant control my feelings, tears flowing from my eyes like water from a tap.our parents have made his funeral also this evening.i didn't get a last chance to see my lovely chintu.for what sin i had this curse from god.what can i tell now what can i do now iam totally depressed.my husband is suppose to come to home now but how can i stay till that time

Answer 1

Hi,
I'm so sorry to hear about your dog, it is always a tragedy to lose a loved pet. When my two old dogs died I was devastated but the important thing is, it sounds like you gave him a good life. So, I know it is upsetting for you but you should be celebrating his life not grieving over your loss. Don't worry about being in tears just cry as much as you want. It is not a curse all things die, and I know it is hard if you cannot go to the funeral but Chintu is gone that is just his empty shell. He lives in your happy memories of him,

Once again so sorry to hear this, take care PP

Answer 2

I'm really, really sorry to hear about your dog. I was through that with a cat once. The best way to deal with sorrow, ive found, is to be with people. Have friends over, go to a social activity. Just do something that will help you get your mind off of the dog. Perhaps get a new dog.
I dont think that god cursed you, or anything like that. Things die. An animal, no matter how much love it exerts or intakes, cannot live forever. I'm very sorry for your loss. Best wishes to you.

Answer 3

I am so sorry for what you're going through - I have been through this, and I know how much it hurts. :-( Is there any way your husband could come home early? You really need to be with someone right now. You didn't do anything wrong, this wasn't anybody's fault. If it helps at all, and I know it probably doesn't right now, there will come a day when you won't feel this bad. It just takes time.

Some people find that visiting this site helps - it's for pet loss grief support:
http://www.petloss.com/

And here's a link to Rainbow Bridge:
http://www.petloss.com/poems/maingrp/rainbowb.htm

And the grief support chat room:
http://www.petloss.com/newchat.htm

Hope this helps

Answer 4

God didn't curse you dear....this is how Satan gets you to hate God...don't blame the Lord...this is not how the Lord punishes people..see how you are feeling resentment towards God? This is what Satan wants....this is just a sad, terrible thing that happened...I lost a little bird friend in a horror way...but did not blame it on God...I knew who was behind it and my faith is even stronger..I am so sad for you, for indeed, it is like losing a family member, or a child...But Time is a great healer...you might be punishing yourself for things you must know you have done that are wrong in God's eyes..but you also must know, that our Father is a forgiving God, and through Jesus, all you had to do was say you were sorry...I am truly sorry for your Loss,...

Answer 5

It is OK to love and it is OK to grieve. It just says that you are human. It is natural and there is nothing wrong with you. However all things will pass if you allow them to. It does not mean you have to forget. With children, it is always difficult to replace. With pets, it may be a little easier.

We had a dog called YoYo. She followed my wife home when we were walking our golden retriever. I tried to put her out she keep coming back. So we keep her after several days and name her YoYo. Turned out to be a wonder family member. Two years ago, during twilight hours, a neighbor ran her over right in front of us and it was devastating. Her death broke our hearts and my wife fell to pieces. As much as we grieved over the loss of YoYo, 2 months later I went down to the animal shelter and pick out Mickey, an 8 month old white and tan collie/husky mix. What a find and really helped my wife to deal with the loss.

We have several computers in our house. I take pictures of YoYo and Stitches (my cat that died in my arms of old age two weeks ago), and scanned them on to the desk top screen. So you see, I still see them everyday and still reminds us of the good times we had together.

Feel better. Good things happen to good people.

Answer 6

Please accept my condolences on your dog's passing. It is always hard to lose a beloved pet that you consider a real member of your family!!

I don't exactly understand why you feel that God "cursed you." Does that feeling have something to do with the circumstances of the dog's death?

The grief will lessen in time, but 'til then just realize that it's totally normal to feel very sad.

Answer 7

It's ok to be sad when a pet dies, but saying that it was a curse, or that god is punishing you for something is absolutely insane. Everything has to die, it's the way of life. Sometimes we know ahead of time that someone is gonna go, and sometimes we don't.

Answer 8

talk to me [e-mail]. try walking that helps. also meditation. try holisticonline.com. God is not cursing you. i'm going thru crap with daily migraines and people who try to get into my head. but i still have faith that life has a positive. hold on and if not call 1800 273 talk. or talk to a therapist online at metanoia.org.

Answer 9

I just watched CNN..mom lost her daughter, house...everything !

Answer 10

sorry about ur dog