Having been a lesbian for 7 years, yet another relationship of mine is failing. Why are they so difficult?
2006-08-26 05:31:55 · 18 answers · asked by twinkletoestheballerina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think all relationships have a tendency to be complicated. It there are chance that you just haven't found the 'right one' yet?
2006-08-26 05:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not the fact of being a lesbian, it sounds like you just haven't found someone you're truly compatible with. All relationships are hard in their own way. Take time to step back and look at your situation...see what made things go wrong. Maybe there's a pattern. Go from there. Try meeting a friend of a friend or even if you have to, look online...somewhere near you. Get to know them first before you sleep with them. Sex complicates things. But don't give up on love...you'll find someone when you least expect it...good luck.
2006-08-26 12:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by shynomore 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is just because relationships in general can be difficult. Maybe you could try some counseling to help you deal with your own issues. Might help you to find something that is long-lasting.
2006-08-26 12:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey it is same as in straight always have its up and down issues so sorry to tell ya that being straight or gay never lok difference when come to relationships it is really always like that u just be optimistice and u'l find the right person that is all we hope to have in our lives.
2006-08-26 12:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by joe m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ive been with my girlfriend for three years and things are great. i dont think it is gay relationships that are the problem. its all relationships. you need to find the person who is right for you, and when you have done that you need to work at it. when you find the right person you'll be laughing!
2006-08-26 12:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by megz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask ex partners what the reason for splitting up was. if you find a pattern try addressing that.
2006-08-26 13:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by Sky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you do not know who the "man" is in the relationship.
2006-08-26 12:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by gin 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
my friends a lesbo and she spilt with her ex because she kept hiding the batteries charger because she was'nt charging them for her digicam but for something that sounds like radiator
2006-08-26 13:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by subway stu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
one woman in a relationship = possible disaster
two woman in a relationship = catastrophe
2006-08-26 13:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by Dark_Knight 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
My aunt was a lesbian for six months. Mind you, she was in jail.
2006-08-26 12:34:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋