sometimes i think me bf is lying to me....he is aloud to do watever he wants and go out and come home whenever...sometimes i feel like he is telling me he is going to sleep and really isant ..i feel like he is going out or he is talking to his ex girlfriend...i dont no wat to do..its the worst feeling
2006-08-26 05:22:08 · 12 answers · asked by xoinlovexo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simple:
1) If there is no trust in this relationship,then what's the point of keeping?
2) If you don't trust him,then what's the point of keeping him?
3) IF he is NOT trustworthy,then he is not worth keeping.
period.
2006-08-26 05:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by Geo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound negative about this, but you are really the only person who can answer that question. You obviously have lost some trust in this guy for some reason, or it can be your insecurity that makes you jelous. If your bf just started talking to his girlfriend, then that can be a sign that he is lying to you, but if he would talk to her before you guys got together, then maybe that is a threat to you. I hope it works out for you, whatever you decide to do, but always remember that what ever decision you make be definite in what you really want, and not because someone else chooses for you.
2006-08-26 05:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by alter_ego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well 1st of all you need to find out if it is true or not because if it's not then you might be holding this against him and he might get tired of it and leave you. 2nd of all if you really feel strong about this then you need to end it. You can't be sitting at home hurting all day wondering what he is doing it's not worth it. And 3rd of all you need to have a backup man just in case he is lying to you so that you wont be so hurt! Good Luck!
2006-08-26 05:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a question, were you like this in other relationships. i know i was always paranoid they were cheating on me and thinking they were still into their exes, but they werent. but if he is giving you reason to doubt confront him. if not, it may be you just have low self esteem. dont worry so much. one thing i have learned if he wants to cheat he is going to do no matter what, you cant stop him. and if he does, YOU SHOULDNT BE WITH HIM ANYWAY! you will find someone better.
2006-08-26 06:51:36 · answer #4 · answered by lizmachain7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey u got to have trust if u wont it to work if u love him. maybe u sould do some investigating work find out if hes been lying to u dump him before u get hurt and if hes going out on u get dump him he may bring something in on like hiv check it out, and this him aloud to go out when he wonts to.h-ll know do , go out your self hang with your friends focus on u dont let him do that to u.
2006-08-26 05:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there might be another reason why you feel he is lying to you. Has he cheated on you in the past?
2006-08-26 05:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by Blessed B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was u, i get a car that he doesnt kno and get couple of ma people roll out and check where he be going
2006-08-26 05:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by La Dueña 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend used to always lie to me saying he didn't like n-e-one but me but i reality he like my friend rebecca i mean don't jump into colcosuns( sorry bad speller) but talk to him about :D
2006-08-26 05:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by volcombabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u do think he's lying to you then you would better end your relationship...........its no point having a relationship with someone who lies to you.........who knows what lies he would say next?
2006-08-26 05:41:01 · answer #9 · answered by ugogirl_gurl_cool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all men lie, they lie about anything and everything. Just get use to it
2006-08-26 05:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by angielynn219 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋