We been toghether for 3 years and we never talked about sex until now. I told him I think it would mess our relationship up (usually sex does that sometimes). So should we have sex?
2006-08-26 05:22:04 · 14 answers · asked by @S CUTE @S CnB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on how old you and him are. If you are under 18 I wold not do it at all becasue you are too young. And yes it could mess up with your friendship. It is both of your decision so do what you want to but use protection if you do.
2006-08-26 05:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First if you are not sure wait! Don't let anyone else decide when you are ready . This is something that should happen naturally , not something that is planned out it will be more awkward if you decide that you are gonna have sex and plan a time. It puts too much pressure on things and most likely the outcome will be bad. Make sure that you and your bf are on the same page , that you both are in love with the other one. If its not love then wait you both deserve to have this mean something. When the time is right it will happen naturally . Good Luck with things and remember only you can decide if you are ready.
2006-08-26 12:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you are having sex for the sake of having sex,I'd rather both of you go look for professionals. That way,you would have a better experiences.
If you feel obligated to have sex after 3 years,then 2 of you are stupid.
IF you think that the term is still "sex" for the 2 of you,then you really should look for pros before having sex with a virgin.
SEX,in your term,is a union of love for couples. It's usually referred to as "Making Love". It's more complex then sex per say. There are a lot more cuddling and foreplay and fun and laughter.
Honestly,if "SEX" for you happen to both of you one day,naturally,and incidentally,with the right ambience and time and mood and all, it will be more beautiful than letting it be planned.
Whatever it is, it's your life anyway.
Have a good time! :D
2006-08-26 12:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by Geo C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on both. Just make sure that this is sumthing u both r ready for. There's no need to rush into things. Think about it I mean givin away your virginity is like givin out a pot of gold. Make sure this is what u want.
2006-08-26 12:36:37 · answer #4 · answered by LADYQUEEN 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well for me,i guess it doesnt matter..i bit the most importnt in a relationship is love and trust..but if u really want to then go,but before u do it try frst with others...virginity is not importnt these days...so that when u and ur bf hav sex it wud be more easier and both of u will be satisfied..if u want to i can teach u...
2006-08-26 12:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by fresh_man 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you both need to consider your age and if you feel you can handle being parents if you doubt your ability to handle this position then your best bet is to not do it until you feel you can.if you're both at a young age then especially don't do it the last thing you want to do is put yourself in a position you can't get out of.once you become parents you will always be and if you are not looking for this then it is much safer not doing it before you decide you are both ready for this.
2006-08-26 12:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF U BOTH FEEL READY AND U KNOW U BOTH LOVE EACHOTHER IM SURE IT WONT MESS ANYTHING UP INFACT IT'LL PROBABLY BRING U CLOSER 2GEVA AND U'LL PROBABLY START TO APPRECIATE EACHOTHER MORE. ITS SO MUCH EASIER AND NICER DOING IT FOR THE FIRST TIME WITH SUM1 U NO AND LOVE AND SUM1 U NO CARES ABOUT U IT MAKES IT ALL THE MORE SPECIAL AND SOMETHING U'LL REMEMBA 4EVA. GOOD LUCK I HOPE IT ALL GOES WELL X X X
2006-08-26 12:29:31 · answer #7 · answered by princess_ruggier 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's really up 2 both of u, if ya think ya r ready ya should
2006-08-26 12:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your bf is not sure about having sex with u, u can have sex with me
2006-08-26 12:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by asyed_omer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't do it until you ARE sure. You will know when the time is right
2006-08-26 12:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by angielynn219 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋