Did god create love for us to suffer and feel pain of loving someone who does not love you back. Does God laught at us pathetic humans. Love is just killing me slowly and I feel like
God really hates me along with all the other suffering from heartbreaks.
2006-08-26 05:14:52 · 16 answers · asked by soloman 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
We have to recognize false love--when someone we love does not reciprocate that same love, it is because we are not facing reality--been there a few times and finally smelled the coffee--In other words, wake up and know that God IS Love and if we are born with love in our hearts, it is because HE gave us that love and don't throw your love away on someone worthless and not worthy of your love.OK?
2006-08-26 05:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by avaddohn-Apollyon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First I think we have to realize something about love. One thing that might help you out is that love is not God's creation...in fact, love didn't come after God, love always was. The reason I say that is because the Bible tells us that God is love, and if God is love and God is not a created being, then love could not possibly have been His creation because it is what He is and always was.
Now we live in a fallen world. Many things were corrupted, like our human bodies, our minds, and other things like our perception of God and therefore our perception of love. The pain you feel from that love is not loves intention, but it is what happens when love is distorted. From what you said, you really believe that God get His kicks from watching us die from heartbreak and you think He hates us...this is another effect of fallen man thinking. There are things in this world that we think are love, but it is not and there is a lot of deception going around. All I can say is that once you get in touch with the pure undefiled love of God, then that love will never fail you. You may still feel pain from time to time, but that love will never die and heartbreak will never ever be able to overtake you again. One can only experience this kind of love and understanding when they allow Jesus to reverse the curse of fallen man in their lives and shine His light and dispel all the deception they had to endure. This is the best I can answer this question.
2006-08-26 12:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by Seven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, God does not tease ou or laugh at us. He loves us like we could never understand. He loves us so much He gave us freedom of choice. Did you pray about this person before you got involved with them? If you didn't this is your reason for heart break. God has a life picked out for each of us. If we pray about everything and leave everything in His hands where it all belongs, He blesses us with the right and only person He has put here for us. I met my husband at 16 and knew from the second I saw him, he was my soul mate. We have been together 12 yrs. now. Of coarse, through many hard times and much suffering, not no where does the Bible promise a perfect life. It does, however, promise there will be tests, trials and suffering. Maybe this was to teach you a lesson and prepare you for something much greater to come. Don't give up or blame God please, pray and move on. Take it for whatever God meant it to be. You are added to my prayers. God Bless you!!!
2006-08-26 12:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mom of 3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God created love, to give us all the chance at some point or another to have the amazing feeling that he himself gives us, the feeling of being loved! Yeah, at times you're going to think God hates you, or is doing this just to hurt you but in all truths, thats not it. God is testing you, to see how strong you can hold. He's letting you get a hold of some people who are wrong for you, sot hat when you do run into the right one, you'll know! Just keep your head up, and dont give up on God. He has a plan for you!
2006-08-26 12:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by DiXiE DARLiNG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God did not make love to harm us. You can't blame the lord for others mistakes and the misfortunes in your life just because love hearts. God made love to make us happy. What would we do without love? You have to admit, although there is usually a downfall you feel the happiest you have ever been when you are in love.
2006-08-26 12:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by hotgman2z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god gave us free will. its a double -edged sword-people are free 2 love u-or NOT. its the "not" that hurts.god doesnt want us to be puppets.like children u raise,then release into the adult world eventually,some of these children will make good choices,and please god and their parents.others will be hurtful,mean people who fill their parents with pain.when bad people hurt others,god does not laugh -god feels intensely the pain his creation inflicts upon each other-but he doesnt step in.why?free will.he wants us to have autonomy,not to be his slaves,unfortunately,some people abuse tha freedom god gave us,and inflict emotional and?or physical harm on others.this icludes violence and war,not just personal relationships....hard to hear now,but what doesnt kill u will make u stronger.we've ALL felt the pain o flove,but withoiut knowing a bad relationship,u wont recognise or treasure as highly,the person who treats u with love and respect.be strong,and know that that person will come into ur life.(sorry about all the typo's-i cant type today!)
2006-08-26 12:30:14 · answer #6 · answered by Lyn K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry to hear that. There are things that could be said that could possible put everything into perspective, but none of those things are very helpful right now for you. So I'm just sorry to hear that things are not going well, there is such a thing as love, and it's not of the nature that would destroy a person.
2006-08-26 12:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by westfallwatergardens 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a gift from God. We must remember (and appreciate) this in all that we do, and use the love within us accordingly. To use this gift in the wrong way means that we bring negatives upon ourselves: greed, heartache, pain, sickness, hardship and more.
2006-08-26 12:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by biblenewz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"God is love." And God loves everyone in the world. But the vast majority of those in the world don't love him! God is not masochistic, he did not create love or the world because he likes pain.
If your love is pure, as God's is, then you can still love others even though they don't love you.
2006-08-26 12:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by BC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The interpretation of love is varied. Does one call the love of a mother with the child painful? The love of a deer seeing its fawn painful? Love is the basis of our existence. without love we can not exist and I disagree that you are dying a slow death because of love. It is your possessiveness that kills you which follows love.
2006-08-26 12:25:04 · answer #10 · answered by No Saint 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋