They haven't seen eachother in 10 years do to a falling out. They are meeting at their dad's house about 3 hours away from here. My fiance is taking our 2 yr old son. Should I be offended (like I somewhat am) that he chose not to invite me? Or should I relax and be happy that they are going to have a nice guy bonding weekend? I bet I should be happy for them, right?
2006-08-26 05:02:12 · 10 answers · asked by Curious1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would feel left out & confused until I realized that this is something he needs to do just between he & his brother. 10 yrs is a long time! Be happy that they are going to repair the relationship. The fact that your baby is going along should assure you that nothing wild will happen. Relax and enjoy the weekend alone. How often does that happen after you have kids?!
2006-08-26 05:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax and enjoy the freeedom.
He may need to get something done with his brother which is y dad, and u on is going to be there( a guys thing) they may all need to bond as guys, I mean he may just want all the men ( with the same last name) to get together and have that time together and get to know each other all over again.
I mean if u really think about it it's a male thing for all these guys to get together and talk about what happen and how they want to make it better. It's all good
He just want his brother to not only get to know him but his nephew too so let him have this and enjoy ur time alone from the men =-)
It's all good sweetie
2006-08-26 05:36:05 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will be other times that you can meet the brother. He is probably just wanting to get reaquainted with him over all these years. Have a nice weekend alone. It is fantastic that he is taking your child along to so you can really have a peaceful weekend. You have absolutely no reason to be offended at all. He probably wants to talk about things with the brother that he might feel uncomfortable talking to him about if you were around. Put yourself in his shoes if something like that had happened to you. Of course most people feel they can tell their partner all the details of what happenend but when it comes down to ironing out things with the other person it is easier to do it one on one with no one else around. The two year old is to young to respond pertaining to the situation. I hope that makes sense.
2006-08-26 05:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes be happy for them and no, don't take it personal. It sounds like a good healthy guys bonding weekend - and since he's taking your son I would guess mischief is not on his adjenda.
2006-08-26 05:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by grrlgenius5173 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that strikes me as odd is that he is taking your son and not you. Most ppl would say "Well, he is a proud father and wants to show off his son." Unfortunately my opinion is that if he is a proud father he should be a proud husband as well and want to show you off just the same. I would bluntly ask him about it. Something just doesn't seem right.
2006-08-26 05:12:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it has been that long since they have seen each other I would just let them be. They have a lot of catching up to do.
2006-08-26 05:09:41 · answer #6 · answered by austinsmommie99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should feel good about their seeing each other. This is not about you, it is about them.
2006-08-26 05:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes let them go and enjoy your free time girl
2006-08-26 05:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by nestina011272 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did he at least explain why he's not taking you? I would be hurt.
2006-08-26 05:07:36 · answer #9 · answered by TigerLilly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok
2006-08-26 05:19:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋