it seems like every guy i'm intrested only wants to sleep with me. and when they know that is not what i want, they disapear. why guys are all about sex?
2006-08-26 05:01:57 · 34 answers · asked by gougga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see ya ! I gotta disapear.
2006-08-26 05:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by The Hit Man 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They are not . Sometimes they take an opportunity when they see it . I'm not trying to be mean or anything but sometimes it has to do with he way some women act, myself included. Ive been in such situations and i looked back at myself and saw what i was doing to get such a response.
Guys are not just about sex . Just as women are not all about relationships.
If you want a guy to like you for you , play down on the sexuality. It is a powerful tool women use to get men, but it just needs to be toned down .
If the guys that come up to you after you readjust yourself to a comfortable level and they still act that way, just kindly push them aside.
2006-08-26 05:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by dramaqueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a guy that wants what you want, friednship. If you want friendship and he wants more how do you expect that to work, someone is gonna be disappointed. When they guys sees that they wont get what they want they move on, consider yourself blessed. Some guys play the role get what they want and then move on. And guys arent all about sex, alot of guys want more but you have to find one of those guys. And by the way if your an attractive lady can you really blame a man for really wanting to sleep with you. Physical beauty is the first thing we see.
2006-08-26 05:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by legend4real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me it will pass, and the guys that disappear, are obviously not the guys you need to be seeking a relationship with right now if you want commitment. The best relationships are built on friendship.
I dont think they are all about sex to maliciously hurt you. Some guys just love sex, and if you're not a good sex partner, then they dont want to be wasting their time.
Thank God not all women think that way!
2006-08-26 05:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by Blessed B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel gal... Hmmm... Maybe its yr outward appearance that could be attracting the wrong guys?? Or maybe the guys that you like tend to be all jerks... Hey no offence!!! Its just an opinion...
What I can say is that although I am a gal, not all guys out there are jerks... There are some who actually looks and behaves like jerks, but somehow when you get to know them a little closer, you realise that they can be sensitive too!!! I know cos I had met guys like that..
Get to know them a little better and maybe you should diversify or widen the choice of guys that you like... Not all good guys turned out to be good, and not all bad guys turned out to be bad... The thing is to give them a chance and get to know them... Only then who knows you might actually met one that u fancy.. Gd luck!!! :)
2006-08-26 05:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by chocolatevanilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys you're interested in are obviously jerks. What kind of guy are you typically interested in? Maybe try going for a completely different type of guy and see how that goes. I'm a fan of being friends with a guy before I get involved, that way they already have an emotional investment in me.
2006-08-26 05:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems your interested in the wrong guys, also how do you dress and where do you go to meet guys makes a huge difference. a guy that may be searching for that miss right will probably still want just sex from the women that look like thats all they are good for. so maybe present yourself differently and men will treat you differently
2006-08-26 05:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by hkfkgsdvfksa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are not all like that.... you need to pick different guys to date!.... think about the guys you have been dating... what do they have in common? avoid it , and date guys completely different! there are great guys out there that will respect you, and want to be with you because they enjoy being with you not because they want quick sex... on the positive side at least you know quickly enough what kind of creep the guy is so you do not invest any more of your time and feelings on him!....good luck! ( it does get better!)
2006-08-26 05:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Fortune 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are about sex. There are some good ones out there. My soon to be husband is one of the good guys. You just gotta look for the good ones.
2006-08-26 05:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by leespitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can't hate guys or else u only left 2b a lesbian or alone. Not all guys r bad. Mayb u miss some of 'em. So try not 2hate.
2006-08-26 06:10:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hate all guys. There are some good ones out there. As you grow in this world you will meet men that are interested in other things as well. Just keep up the good work, your doing fine. (by not giving it up)
2006-08-26 05:06:16 · answer #11 · answered by Mee Mee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋