OMG!! my ex is sooo annoying I just talked to him and he wants to talk to my cousin I told him i'd tell her should I? I don't think so im trying to protect her from him cause theres no way of escaping him unless u just don't talk to him cause he lies cheats and acts like a freggin retard!! He cheated twice and hurt me and I just don't want her to get her too!! he gets girls by using his professional pitty trip he makes u feel all sorry for him and then u just fall for him the he makes u feel all good about yourself and then he cheats lie and acts like a jerk!! he did the same thing with my friends Brittany!! and I don't know what to do plz help!!
2006-08-26 05:00:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg! I'm in almost the exact same situation except my cousin went to camp last year where this guy liked her and then when she came back I asked him out for her. They went out for a while but then he cheated on her and broke up with her twice. He's a real jerk for a lot of things he says and does. He's never even met me and he likes me just cause he saw my picture and thought I was hot. And to top it off, this other girl he went out with always got mad whenever she talked to him since they were still friends. He told her everytime he talked to my cousin and then his stupid gf would call and say hecka rude things to my cousin. It's a long story but my advice for you is to warn your cousin. If he was that rude to you, your cousin should'nt even consider getting with him. I know I never would because anyone who is rude to my cousin has absulutly no chance with me. If she doesn't heed your advice, then don't blame yourself. You warned her and that's all you can do. If she gets hurt, she has no one to blame but herself. Also, consider this, that your x is probably just trying to make your jelous and you can't let him get his way. Otherwise, just let the past be in the past. Please don't play games and turn this into a big soap opera scene like we did. It doesn't wrk. Hope my advice helped. Good luck!
2006-08-26 05:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by ♥bambii_xoxo♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, my situation is exactly the same. I dated this guy who was nothing more than a liar. And even after he dumped me in the cruelest way possible... he had the nerve to ask out my cousin? All that shows is that he obviously doesn't care about anyone but himself. And if you're in this situation, my advice to you is tell him the truth, and nothing else, unless you want to turn the situation into a big drama scene. But there's really no reason to lead you're cousin into dating someone who hurt you because there's a better chance that he'll hurt her, too, and is that what you want for someone who you care about? Not likely. Tell him to get a life.
2006-08-26 14:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ misschels ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my best friend went through the same thing! Her bf was a jerk too! He made her life miserable. Then he wanted to go out with her cousin. I told her to tell her cousin everything that he did to her that was bad and let her cousin decide for herself.
2006-08-26 12:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by ebbyangel05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don’t trust him…
His interest in your cousin is probably only seen as a way of getting back at you.
Tell him that you want nothing more to do with him, and that if he approaches you or your cousin, you will consider taking out a Court Order against him, and having him charged with harassment!!!
Hopefully, that will fix the problem.
2006-08-26 12:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mistake was telling your ex you'd mention him to your cousin when you were unsure about it. That said, if you *know* he's such a bad apple, why would you pawn him off on another person? That relationship is more than likely going to fail, and your cousin would probably end up resenting you for it.
2006-08-26 12:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're in a drama queen situation.. let them go.. get away from them fast.
let her learn this also.
do some 'me' time for yourself. after a while if your cousin is asking the same questions, talk to her about it and give him the kick to the curb.
2006-08-26 12:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well yew should tell your cuzin BUT don't hook them up tell her that ur only telling her this cuz yew would felt bad if yew didn't BUT that he cheats lie's and many more things and after that if she still wants to get with him that her choice and yew can't stop her hoped i help good luck : ]
2006-08-26 12:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by volcombabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her, spare her from the retard. It's pretty gross on his part to want to keep it in the family, who will he want to date next...your Mom? Tell him to go play somewhere else.
2006-08-26 12:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree that you dont want her to get hurt but if he wants to talk to her let him this is none of ur buissness who she gos out with...even though hes ur ex no affense but i think that you are jeolous and still want him but hey...if he wants to talk to her and she wants to talk to him then let her make the mistake she needs to learn from it instead of you showing her right frum wrong!!!
2006-08-26 12:10:06 · answer #9 · answered by daddys_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you go out with him if you knew what he was like? You can tell her about his behaviors, and then let her decide for herself.
2006-08-26 12:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋