I want to start dating again but have some issues. Such as where do you meet someone with out it being some where that you get in trouble such as a bar ect., i am also self conscious of my weight as i weight 205lbs 5ft 4in tall but proportional. I dont leave the house much. My income is limited, or low income, really budgeted trying to get disability. Many issues here. Age 32. What do you all think and suggest here with all of this...what positive hope and advise do you have for me...
2006-08-26 04:58:16 · 7 answers · asked by fantasia91273 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can start with exchanging emails,trading HOT pictures etc
2006-08-26 05:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take better care of yourself. Obviously, I don't know WHY you're 5'4" and 205 lbs but is there any REALISTIC way for you to bring down that weight?
I ask because there are some very real long-term health issues related to obesity, and those issues tend to compound as you age. So, tackle that first. Get some kind of counseling, use the internet to read up on what you can do for free and CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOR. That will take some doing, but if you WANT to, you will find a way, and as you succeed your confidence will grow and your attractiveness will come through and that will attract attention.
A good start is to get OUT. Walk everywhere you can. Go to free events. it might feel weird at first, but so what? Tell yourself you're taking care of yourself (which you are) and that a guy is part of your phase two.
This sounds easy, but I know it isn't. And yet, what is the alternative if you don't TRY?
2006-08-26 12:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by cboni2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One positive thing is you have to believe in yourself and quit calling yourself down. 205 isn't a bad weight. What I go by is what is inside a person. You could have a knock out chic but also might not be what you are looking for but you give the one like you a chance and she could be more beautiful then one could ever imagine. You don't have to go to a bar to find someone or to be noticed. Just get out of your residence. Go for a coffee, a soda, grocery store. Or where ever. Even go for a walk. Good luck and try not to be so down....ok.
2006-08-26 12:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by Gez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest seriously start working on your weight issue. When you feel better about yourself, you'll be ready to go out and meet someone appropriate.
It's important to get out of the house more, even if it's to start walking in a safe area. Check out your surroundings. There are amazing things to see and interesting people to watch.
2006-08-26 12:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is going to love you until you love yourself.
You dont sound very confident. You arent going to find somene by sitting at your house. If you are consicous abot your weight, why not exercise? Go for walks around your block. Go out with your friends.
Im sorry to say butno guy wants a girl with alot of issues. We all have our baggage, but you have to leave it at home. dont bring out with you.
2006-08-26 12:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by Kayte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, you should try finding someone that's like you(in weight wise, no offense) And as in somewhere to meet, for you 1st date, I would say, no somewhere romantic yet, maybe like a burger joint or something until you get to know each other.
2006-08-26 12:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by ebbyangel05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay dating aint easy trust me im 37 m 245 what happen why dont you go out much jst to walk and talk with friends? dosent cost money to talk make friends ok
2006-08-26 12:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋