I met a guy that is super, the sex is the best ever, he's said it and I have to agree, when we are together we have a blast, and i could definitely see a relationship forming, but our futures arent going in the same direction...he wants a house, wife, kiddos and i am more career oriented......i was just wondering what others opinions are in this matter. should i just go with the flow, enjoy my time with him, knowing that we may have to end it, or stop now before i get in too deep
2006-08-26 04:55:27 · 11 answers · asked by Stacy R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey I'm married and My wife has her career as well we both work and have a house and four kids. So why does it have to stop. Working moms are ever where it all in timing. he want a house and kids, but the real question is when. Getting a house can be done anytime, but when to have kids is something that need to be talked about and decided by both parties. If it is good enough everyone involved will find a happy solution together
2006-08-26 05:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by keith_r83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise. Tell him let you get your career established and then work on the kids. You might can get a house while you are working on your career. Just be open and honest with him and whatever happens would be the best for you. You can go wrong by being honest.
2006-08-26 05:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you have both you work he stays home with the kids.He has what he want house ,wife and kids.You can have your career.If it's love then stay and make it work or if it's just for a good time tell him and go from there. It is better if it's both your decision. Just talk it out it will be good for you guys to straighten this out together.
2006-08-26 05:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by shookyloo® 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow and enjoy it. LIfe's too short.
It's excellent that you've been up front with your respective life choices. Now resume your passion but be tuned to when one of you begins to fall in love. Downshift, talk it through and either resume or stop.
It will be bittersweet when it has to end but ... think of the memories.
2006-08-26 05:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by cboni2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more and more women today r bringing in the dough this can be the same thing.....u can go on with ur career and he could stay at home the only thing is make sure ur goin 4 love and not lust
2006-08-26 05:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by Tiny Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a good chance fo u career is a part of life, but career not not onlyy life pl think once again
2006-08-26 05:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop now girl and go your own direction.
2006-08-26 05:00:12 · answer #7 · answered by Gez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to learn to meet half way. if hes not gonna meet halfway than have fun but dont get in deep.
2006-08-26 05:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by latino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey,he is already in deep. Just have fun while i lasts,bc when he realizes that you are what you are he will drop you like a hot potato.
2006-08-26 05:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i should be so lucky,go with the flow.
2006-08-26 05:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by Agent99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋