I just read a question (and answered it) about a boy who says he is 14 and his teacher and he just had sex!!!!!!!!!!! Now the worst part of this is that people are responding to him that HE is going to get the woman in trouble and ruin her life!!!!!!!!! She is the one ruining her own life and I am appaled at the answers this kid is getting. Alot of people told him to keep doing it! The ones who are blaming this kid for what happened have got to be out of their minds!!!! What do you think?
2006-08-26 04:54:47 · 43 answers · asked by {Lisa} 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
To all those who say this is only a kid or a grown person joking around, what if it isn't? what if it was YOUR kid. Kids do come here for answers because they are too afraid to talk to someone about this stuff. They can come here and tell the truth and no one knows who they are. Even if it is not real I hope that it isn't, it should be treated as if it were real. If we tell this kid that is is ok because we don't believe him and then he goes and tries it! Or it is real and no one will help him figure out what to do and he loses himself in confusion.
2006-08-26 05:32:29 · update #1
The question is in singles and dating. This kid actually thinks he is in love with this woman....................
2006-08-26 05:34:24 · update #2
See that is the problem with society. If an underage boy is having sex with his female teacher the other men are giving him a high five and saying way to go. But if it was a male teaching having sex with his underage female there would be an outrage.
I can't believe they would place the blame on a 14 year old. He honestly doesn't know any better or really realize the legally consequences. The teacher does and by having sex with him she is ruining her own life.
The sad part is I do believe that people would say that.
2006-08-26 05:01:43 · answer #1 · answered by butterflykisses427 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Half the stuff I read on here freaks me out. I think a lot of people answer under the assumption that it is a joke and the kid is not really a kid at all, but truth be told, there are probably lots of kids on here learning all sort of horrible things because of some of the nasty answers that people give. Bottom line, not everyone is out to help and you can only hope that if the kid is real, he read through all the crap and finds the answer that he is looking for. Also, shame on all of the parents of the young ones allowed on here- this is not a place for kids! (guess those are the same parents that are missing in the kids lives while they are out having sex with teachers- yikes!)
2006-08-26 05:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by Smilingcheek 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He could be just an immature 14 year old boy putting his fantasy online. There are a lot of those on this site, they think it's an extension of MySpace I guess.
If it is true, it's sick. The adult is ALWAYS responsible in those cases, not the child, and a 14 year old is a child.
Unfortunately, in this world of macho idiocy, any male that gets sex of any sort is deemed as "cool". Which is very sick and pathetic. There are still some men out there that encourage their sons to go out and "get some" to be a man. Tells you their warped image of what being a man is, doesn't it? These are the same people who think porn is a "healthy outlet" for males. Yeah, right. They should see how porn is the fastest growing addiction in America today.
2006-08-26 05:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I just watched that episode of Oprah about the teachers getting pregnant by thier students.
I don't think its entirely the teachers fault. Teenage boys arent as sweet as they are cracked up to be. In todays society kids are learning about sex at a much earlier age and are maturing faster than ever. So at 14 and 15 boys know alot about sex and can seem alot more adult to a sad single young teacher.
So I dont place all the blame on the teacher. The boy should be accountable too.
2006-08-26 05:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by Kayte 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I share your sentiments Lisa. I think the teacher is really ruining herself at the expense of this boy's eagerness. It's hard to place the blame on a situation like this because no one really knows how both parties look at their relationship. One bit of advice is to use what has happened before as an example where the teacher (her name escapes me) had a thing with her student, subsequently had a child for him, and now spends her time in prison. The boy has his life ahead of him, he doest need that kind of drama.
2006-08-26 05:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by Blessed B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. The ones who told him to keep doing it were probably kids themselves. This boy is probably very confused and he is the one who will be hurt. Hopefully, the teacher will get what she deserves. People can be very irresponsible with their answers in here. I'm going to put this on my watch list, can you give me the link to that question. I would like to answer it myself. Don't worry, I am a responsible adult with 2 grandchildren of my own and would not give this child bad advice.
2006-08-26 05:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by shirley_corsini 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At least one of them needs to be responsible. If the teacher isn't (and I do blame her), then the 14 year old needs to step up and make the right decision. He knows the difference between right and wrong as well as the teacher. This is a very emotional subject, as it has happened again and again.
2006-08-26 04:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by Emm 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I am about the same age and i think the is very discusting. We are to young for that. To me i think it is the teachers fault she could have stopped it. For all we know she could have pressured him into it. I honestly think that something like that could have been stopped. So yes, I blame it on behalf of the teacher. If i were in that situation and i was ((possibly)) pressured into something i would re think it. And if it did happen i would tell someone that could do something about it no doubt!!!
2006-08-26 05:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by Brittanie C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What I think doesn't matter, what I know is different. He is just a child with a big head right about now. She is a foolish woman, with her job at risk. Ignorance comes in many forms, it's just to bad, that the Adults on Y&Q would encourage this type of involvement. (Then that is just an opinion, they really could be kids, cheering him on).
2006-08-26 05:02:35 · answer #9 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
People on the internet can be stupid! Most likely the kid is lying to get attention but you are right.. if he isn't then those people are making it worse!
And for those who say the teacher is not responsible. you are wrong. She has a moral contract! Unless it is rape, she can say NO!
2006-08-26 05:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by mommato4boys 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋