We were working on homework after school and she gave me the signal to make a move and she's so hot I decided to do it. I'm only 14 teen, it was my first time and I really want to work it out with her. Is this wrong cuz she's only 30 years old and I think i'm in love?
2006-08-26 04:40:32 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now wait for a brother or sister for your best friend.........
2006-08-26 04:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by doctorindia 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14. Although you may feel like you are all grown up, you are not. You have so many things to do yet before entering the adult world. You need to tell your mom what happened and you need to tell the police. This teacher did something very bad and you are a victim. Even if you made the first move, she should have stopped you. This will change you. Don't do anything with this teacher again and make sure she is not at any school where whe can do this to other boys.
Please call the police. You might feel like a snitch, but you are not. You will be getting a dangerous person out of the schoold system. Your teacher is what is called a pedophile. This is a serious problem and she WILL go on to hurt other students if you don't stop her.
2006-08-27 04:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by shirley_corsini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just confused over love and lust now cos you have still got a lot to accumulate before you could say you really wanna work it out with someone.
What I feel is, what is done cannot be undone. Forget about it if it's just a one-time.After all she made the first move,not you,so you are not at fault (morally). But if it happens for a 2nd time,then you are because as a man,14 or not, you are allowing your d*ck to override your brain. It's your bud's mom for goodness sake!! Not so much that she's 30 man!
If you think you love her, think again. If you could still say that when you are 30, then you really love her,cos she'll be 60 and her body will be crumpled. Any other female at 30 then would still be haba-haba.
All the best dude!
2006-08-26 04:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by Geo C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen , she is the mistaken person here , it is her fault n it urs too , cz if she gives u that signal , u didnt have too do it cz u r not ready for sex in ur age , this a sin , a crime , u lost ur virginity just in on night , it is not a real relationship right that's dirty , this teacher used u boy , she used but she will never ;love u , n look she is 16 yrs older than u how can u love her , u r a teen , u cant really knw ur real feelings , teens r always confused abt these stuff , so stop having sex with her , forget that day , n complete ur life as it was , this teacher dnt deserve to be one , she used u , n that's it , maybe she only want to knw how will it be with a teen or cz u were a virgin , so stop it , n keep going in ur life , n trust me u dnt love her that was just cz of the sex u had together but if u wait u will see another girl that 's in ur age n that u really love her ( a true love ) but dnt have sex b4 18-20 at least so u can understand what u r doing , where r u going with this relation , understanding sex ramifications , but with this woman u will regret for the last day in ur life , if u complete with her .
good luck .
2006-08-26 04:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by who k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so u want to be ur best friends step dad?? if this happened tell ur parents or the principal @ school, cos she is in a position of trust and authority and has abused it. She is a paedophile for preying on you and should b sentenced. You dont love her and she doesnt love u she just liked the attention u gave her. she is old enough to control herself and should have never been in that situation in the first place. Its only lust and u are only 14, u will find true love one day with someone who deserves it.
2006-08-26 04:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by nicole 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is a true story. Of course you think you are in love with her. It was your first time, and she is older than you. She should go to jail for what she did. That is not cool. What kind of woman is turned on by a 14 year old. (No offense.) But come on now...That is just sick to me. I am 47 and I can't imagine sleeping with some one who is 27, let alone a 14 year old.
2006-08-26 04:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is making the first signal for you to make the move, do you really think your the first or the one and only?? I think you are so wrong for doing it and I think you are stupid to think that you could really "work it out with her". You are 14 and you are jail bait.
2006-08-26 04:50:14 · answer #7 · answered by Paula M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was wrong on her part. You need to come clean with your parents. She is not a friend. and you will not be able to make it work. by the time you are even old enough to have a relationship with this woman, you will not like her any more. But your mom needs to know. This was morally wrong and she was only taking advantage of you. Don't fall into this trap. The police need to know as well as your parents and the school board so she can't do this to any other children.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-08-26 04:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by {Lisa} 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with premarital sex begins here: "Thinking of being in love after having sex". As young as 14,you really need guidance,I don't think your parents are neglecting you but you need to talk to them. If you still have them, please seek help from you father, or an older brother. You need to know what's right and what's wrong, there is nothing wrong with being "in love" - its just that you need to differentiate love from infatuation.
2006-08-26 04:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by Beauty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The sad part about it, even though you enjoyed it and thought now your one of the guy's, and that is if your just not blowing smoke, then you have really put that women's life in ruins, she will lose everything, definately go to jail and be labled with a sex crime, depends on the state, may be in a book, definately on the internet along with real rapist and people who molest children,! If your for real please keep your mouth closed don't brag, it can also ruin your life, but definately hers is history!
2006-08-26 04:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by Michael 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off you are NOT in LOVE.. you are 14 with raging hormones...Normal.. she is very wrong and you need to talk to someone fast!!!! Don't let it continue .. you are still just a boy.. i know you think you are more and when an older women wants sex with you well... ....... She has a problem ... and it needs to be nipped in the bud now..talk to someone wiser than yourself...
2006-08-26 04:49:28 · answer #11 · answered by sandi4551 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋