He has even got a tattoo on his arm with my name!!!!!!!!!!!!! He doesn't want to be friends with me, he only wants to be my boyfriend!!!!!!!!! When I say that I don't love me, he gets angry with me & then again he gets friendly!!!!!!!!! Plaese help me!!!!!!
2006-08-26 04:23:09 · 14 answers · asked by Lakhz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you don't want to be with him, tell him. if he's that into you, he's gonna hurt. but it is best to end it soon so the hurt isn't as bad and it doesn't take as long to get over. i know, i just got out of a reltionship like this(without a tattoo though!). and it hurts no matter what if your really into the person. and breaking up isn't allthat eeasy i know, but if you don't want to be with him, tell him, MAYBE you may become friends, but usually that doesn't happen.
2006-08-26 04:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by ceebee1111 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It looks like this guy is past the point where he could be let down without getting hurt. The only thing you can do is just tell him that you need to be friends with him right now and you are going through something that you will need space to over come. If he gets violent or mad it may be best to have a girl friend present when you tell him this.
2006-08-26 12:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by Steven D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a bit of a dangerous relationship. This male may become abusive with you if he is getting angry already. And getting someone's name tattooed on you is a big mistake, especially when your young. So I would suggest that you be as honest as you can with this male and tell him that your not either interested at present time or ready to have a relationship with him as boyfriend/girlfriend. If he should start to harass and/or follow you then you will have to put a restraining order on him. I certainly hope that it doesn't get to that extreme and that he can take the news that your not interested in a relationship with him as a mature individual. All I am suggesting is that you be careful please.
2006-08-26 11:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you hurt him, for the way you described him,your life will only turn miserable when your heart softens and let him in,which is usually the case.
He got a tattoo,that's his problem.He's a grown-up and he's got a min of his own.You didn't get him to do that so he has got no rights to blame you.
One way you could do is,don't talk to him or pick up his phone.If he gets overboard,report to the police. You better act fast before it's too late.
Tell him this - Love is not about Possession.
If he still don't get your idea, you will have to watch it. Whatever it is,you have to let your buds and family know about him. So,if something happens to you,at least they have a clue.
Best Wishes!
2006-08-26 11:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by Geo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you have a boyfriend or better yet a fiance' and if he persist in pursuing you enlist the help of some big dude to hang out with you a while to pose as your finace' make sure hes sees this and he'll get the message. but make sure the guy you get to help you understands what he is doing to. don't give him the wront Idea. you might even employ him for a brief period of time.
there's plenty of good men out there that would help you out with this.
2006-08-26 12:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by chris a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a male from your family to be around when you tell him and make sure he knows you are serious he sounds violent the tattoo is a dead giveaway he has screws loose. there is no nice way to dump a guy you just do
2006-08-26 11:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...... there's no way he would'nt get hurt coz it's really hard to be turn down by a girl specially ih she's kinda really attracted to the guy, but.... being honest with him would be the best way to deal with just tell him how u feel bout him..... no more no les be straight to the point...... good day^^
2006-08-26 11:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by blue n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dealing with a sick puppy, get far, far away from this dude. There is something wrong with his brain. Next he'll hurt you and you don't deserve that.
2006-08-26 11:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha...actually its not funny. he sounds kind of...creepily dangerous. I would see if he means harm, ya know? maybe you should give him a chance. otherwise, i would seriously look into protection from.... i guess the police. he could be like a stalker or something. i know thats farfetched...but...better to be safe then sorry, right?
2006-08-26 11:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by sugar4sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him...I feel like u're a brother to me...don't worry u'll find a perfect girl for u:)
2006-08-26 11:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by what goes around comes around 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋