She has told me she wanted to be friends???

Question

My girlfriend asked us to be friends for now as she wanted to live as she always had..flirting and all of that.She said she loved me just want to be friends with me right now But I can't be like her..all my thoughts are her..I have tried to go back to my normal life without her and try to be normal friend with her and forget that we were once together..the problem is the more I try..the more the pain deepens and I feel like I need her with me.I need help on what to do now..I am now utterly confused..

Answer 1

Sorry to tell you this but she has moved on. A girl doesn't tell her bf that she just wants to be friends unless she just doesn't like you anymore that way. So I would just have to tell you that maybe being friends with her isn't such a good idea since you still care for her very much. Maybe taking a few steps away slowly might help you move on to find someone else. Someone who really wants to be your gf. I wouldn't worry about it. Good luck!

Answer 2

This is long, but I think it will help.....

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> If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
> If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
> Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
> Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
> Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant
> to be.
> Slower is better.
> Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly
> happy.
>
> If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
> deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't
> mistreat a friend.
> Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he
> probably is.
> Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
> You'll be mad at
> yourself
> a year later for staying when things are not better.
>
> The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
> Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
> women.
> He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat
you

> any differently?
> If something bothers you, speak up.
> Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
> You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

> Never let a man define who you are.
> Never borrow someone else's man.
> Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
> A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
> All men are NOT dogs.
> You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a
> two-way street.
> You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
> about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new
> relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a
> relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone
> complimentary...not supplementary.
> Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr... Right.
> Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are,
> and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
> Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you
> need.
> Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Answer 3

you just need to get over her, theres nothing more you can do. It might be hard now but eventually depending how close use were to her you will get over her, its apart of life.