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what advice can you prescribe for heartbreak.

2006-08-26 04:02:39 · 10 answers · asked by jewel 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Don't belittle yourself and don't think about him and move on. Consider it his loss and not yours

2006-08-26 04:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0 0

No, it is never wise to jump into another relationship so soon after a break up, especially if it was a long relationship or a first true love. You have to really deal with all of the emotions and feelings from the old relationship before you can be in a good state of mind for a new one. You need to allow yourself time to heal and time to digest what happened and why. Allow yourself time to grieve, after all it is a loss and, more often than not, it hurts!

Re-evaluate your dating goals and try to learn from this one so that the next one can be better. Go out with friends, have fun, meet new people, try a new hobby or rekindle an old one. Take time to focus on your needs, wants, and desires.

Don't jump into a new relationship too soon or you run the risk of being hurt or hurting someone else. It isn't unusual for someone who jumps into a new relationship right after a break up to not be as focused on the new as they are the past and every little thing that reminds them of it. It's also not uncommon to want to jump in and try to pick up where the old one left off or compare the old one to the new one causing bad feelings for the new flame.

I know it's very cliche, but time does heal a broken heart. I hope yours heals quickly so that love can find you again.

2006-08-26 04:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by grrlgenius5173 2 · 0 0

Just because the two of you broke up, doesn't mean that you have to completly take a break from all relationships. It might take you a while to get over the heart break, and you might think you've forgotten about the heart break, however, it will always be there. Just try to move on, but this time be more cautious with your heart and emotions. Evaluate the relationship, and find out what went right and what went wrong so the next time you get in a relationship, you will know what will and will not work.

2006-08-26 04:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by nooknook92 2 · 0 0

"The problem with a girl with a broken heart is she starts to hand out the pieces to anyone that comes along." I recently got out of a 5 year relationship 5 months ago. Take my advice from personal experience-you need to focus on yourself right now and take time to heal. There is nothing pretty about rebounds, because they will end up tragically and you will only end up feeling more hurt because your heart is so fragile right now. The last thing you need to do right now is go out and find a boy to try and fill the void. No person or boy can fix you-you must take the time to heal and focus on yourself first.

2006-08-26 04:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Its up tp you and what you feel in your heart. You have to think about how your ex made you feel and if you are ready to jump into another relationship right away. My sister says (i think see heard this from a movie) that the best way to get over a man is to get under another one. I dont think this works all the time though. Just becareful with your heart and try not to get hurt or hurt someone else in the process.

2006-08-26 04:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

im going through the same thing right now, people say you shouldnt go right into anothe relationship right away you should give urself time to heal, but i need something more than just time to get over this heartbreak, so hopefully i can find a nice guy to make me feel better

2006-08-26 04:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0 1

you pray for healing. you give yourself time to heal. do not get into a relationship until you are ready for the consequences of another one.

2006-08-26 04:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

to get into another relationship in willm not help you. its unfair to that person because you just using him to mend your broken heart, but if you think that you love that person why not.

2006-08-26 04:08:22 · answer #8 · answered by heart 1 · 0 0

just get over him and move on. you're too good 4 him. once ur over him, then get a new bf

2006-08-26 04:09:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm in same situation too! And it's been 2 years already.....still crying. : (

2006-08-26 04:07:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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