my boyfriend if of to uni in bath and i live in london. and i rele want us to stay together. but do u think it will work?? i mean i will go down n stay with him on the weekends and stuff n he will come up here but i wanna kno wt you think??
i was wondering what to say to him??
like what to u wanna do wen u go to uni stay together or break up?
i dont kno weather to say n e thin to him or just leve it and see wat happens??
2006-08-26 04:01:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like i always say to my friends if it was ment to be it will work, if you serious about 1 another then theres no reason why it shouldnt.
but one bit of advice i will give you is if you are going to stay together make sure you trust him 100% because jealousy will ruin everything
gud luck anyway
2006-08-26 04:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by stacey f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Game Over
2006-08-26 04:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not going to work, I'm sorry.. :(
There's going to come a weekend where he wont be able to come because he can't afford it or he has a lot of homework or a paper do... and you can't go there that weekend cause he wouldn't have any time to spare...
I would just break it off now while it's good then let it get sad and ugly...
*hug!*
2006-08-26 04:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by snowcoveredtree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Long distance relationships (especially at Uni)seldom work too many distractions!
2006-08-26 05:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, I would leave it for now but it looks like the relationship may not work long distance. You and ur boyfriend will have to have a very strong relationship to make it work.
2006-08-26 05:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by clairie1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already crossed the line...try abstaining from sex. And wait and see if he is still interested in you without the sex! Get to know one another on other levels...ones that lead to good relations...Sex outside of marriage distorts things and you get all confused like this...You need to know his plans, goals, and desires, likes and dislikes...get some Josuah Harris books and share them with him and see how he responds to reading them with you! Sex is not the problem lust is...if you can get past lust,
then you can abstain from Sex until you are married! Praying for you poor confused girl!
2006-08-26 04:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It my long years of experience, long distance relationship just cannot work. its not i wanna rain on ur parade but just think carefully about wad decision you're gonna make
2006-08-26 05:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by Abel Blessed Lim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see what happens either the distance will make the heart grow fonder or things will not work out either way you would have tried
2006-08-26 04:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by missree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how serious you are. my brother lives here in surrey and his gf lives in worcester and goes to uni in hampshire. its working for them............you need to chat seriously with him and then see from there. then give it the test of time if he says yes.
2006-08-26 04:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by supersam82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fu really like him im afraid u have to let him go....i mean he's worked hard to get into uni, hasnt he?...if u cant do that...be unselfish and go with him...cramp his style...go on...u know u want to....MuhuHAHAHA...(sori)
2006-08-26 04:06:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋