I get bored really quick with women and i am 31 years old I love to have sex with em but after about 2 or 3 times i get bored sexually with em and want some new stuff is this normal and why am i like this I been with 23 women
2006-08-26 03:58:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's really easy--you are a male who really likes sex. It is so funny to see so much judgment about people who love sex and want to experience it with lots of different people.
Just be you. I cannot think of anything bad unless you mislead the people you are having sex with, and it doesn't sound like you are leading them on (hard to tell.) Being honest with your partner(s) is the only important thing. Screw "normal." I think being true to yourself is far more important than meeting some cultural, religious, or community norm.
2006-08-26 04:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by DellXPSBuyer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have a sexual addiction. you need to get to know someone before thinking of sex. try to see them as a person first and not a sex object.
you may have a fear of emotional intimacy and casual sex just keeps you from getting close to someone.
no, it's not normal if you want a real relationship. you need to do some soul searching and maybe see a therapist or read some good books on emotional healing. seems that men have a harder time connecting then women. it's the way our society is built and the way many men are taught. being emotionally close to a woman, doesn't make you less of a man; quite the contrary.
put sex on hold for as long as possible, when you meet a woman you think you may like. give it time to grow into something more.
and try to think of their feelings before yours. if they want what you want, a quick roll, then go for it. if not, don't hurt someone else due to your selfish desires.
it's good you asked.
2006-08-26 11:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's human nature. you haven't found what you really need or want in life. when you do u'll know. 23 doesn't sound like a lot to me at all. don't worry about it. but if you know that much about yourself just don't let the girl believe it's something more than it is. be honest and let her know it's a sex thing. that's the only thing i see that could help. i think it's totally normal. you might have some commitment issues but for the most part ur all good
2006-08-26 11:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by liketoplay420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound like some one i dated once and there is one thing i told him and i will tell u the same. u r a jerk. u have a problem with commitment and there is nothing any one can do to help u, i pray some one hurts u as much as u have hurts some one u have hurt. women r not toys they have feeling and it hurts when we r used. get real
2006-08-26 11:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you try finding out more about them on a non sexual level first...have all aspects of a relationship before bringing sex into it..and you might find you might keep one around for awhile if it's just not a sexual relationship.
2006-08-26 11:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by joschaos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go and see your doctor or perhaps is as result of too much sex,thats why you are getting bored of it.
2006-08-26 11:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by Aliyu J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when you are bored, it really means that you yourself are boring.
2006-08-26 11:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by msuzyq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey look my best friend has been with 135 females so it ok do u
2006-08-26 11:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by bubba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not them its you
2006-08-26 11:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋