been out with him a few times.... there are times when he made me feel really special... but there are also times when it feels like nothing.... so far he hasnt rejected me when i asked him out. Even if he is not free, he would fix another date up with me. he gave me something which is really cheap for my birthday a few months ago... though he wrapped it up really nicely and spent a bit of effort on the card.. but something really hurts... he told me he kinda forgot about the date that we were supposed to have on friday.... does that mean that i dont quite mean anything to him. Have been trying to guess his feelings for the past few weeks.. it is getting tougher! How do i know how he feel for me , other than telling him directly?
2006-08-26 03:51:58 · 15 answers · asked by romaniac 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, wht did he give you? you must always go and talk straight in the eye rather then waiting for some ways. evn if you guess it, it might turn out wrong and bring the end of your love story. by da way he must hav 4gotten bout da date coz he might hav had sum imp. work and due to dis TENSION of his, he might hav 4gotten. Y not go and ask him gal? i'm sure he loves you too. Some ppl bhave dat way so dat u don get 2 kno dat dey love u. but if u broke up wid him too, he might act casually as if he were not bothererd but wen he reaches home he'l cry so much dat even suicide wil feel less 4 him.
2006-08-26 04:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by Maddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kind of sounds like he doesn't really have a love lust for you. Maybe he just takes his time and is testing you to see how you feel about him before he jumps into anything. I guess he realizes that you are a bit materialistc since you made the remark about the financial value of the gift he bought instead of looking at the personal value. I am sure that he checked that block on his list
2006-08-26 03:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you already know and you are looking for justification of your feelings. He is a guy - he forgets. That is not a big deal. The fact that he got you something cheap, but took a lot of time and effort, and you are not satisfied, really tells me something about your character.... You need to give it some time to see how this relationship goes...it will work itself out, you'll see.
2006-08-26 03:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by Trisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call it quits, because he would set you up with another date, when he is not available. He is not serious about this relationship so just be friends with him and that's that. Next time he wants to set you up with a date, just tell him you already have one. Blow him out of the water.
2006-08-26 03:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it sounds like he wants to be just friends with you. When a guy is really into a girl he will have no trouble showing you and telling you how he feels.
2006-08-26 04:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by Bazinga 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. the best thing is to test him! Disappear for a while and if he calls you- that means he cares.. Guys don't like when girl is showing her interest... so play with him, follow the rules and you will get him!
2006-08-26 03:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by Tenski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like he's trying really hard, you gotta cut him some slack, yeah he's trying, he likes you and he cares lots bout you, you have to understand that he can't always be there, even if he tries, life is unfair, you should be supportive to him and make him feel special too, don't just think bout yourself, because then he;ll see you as a selfish person
2006-08-26 03:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So what is it you really love about this guy? Ensure you are not just infatuated with him... and why are you not telling him how you feel when he does certain things?
You will know instantly when love is reciprocated.
2006-08-26 03:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by Sue_Render_Urself_2Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you aren't the priority at the moment, but second choice. I would enjoy his company, but don't plan the future at this point.
2006-08-26 03:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he used 2 like u but now he doesn't
2006-08-26 03:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋