I mean was snooping through is his things and saw texts and calls from various females (and I saw myself too). I saved the numbers in my phone, hoping one day I'd have the nerve to call and ask them. But when I confronted him about this he got really upset and vehemently denied any wrongdoing. I had had suspicions before and when I saw this it only seemed to confirm what I was thinking. Now whenever I'm around (or not around) him, I seem to be questioning his motives and how trustworthy he is. Quite frankly I am sick of messing with him and want to move on, but I can't. Another part: he was the one I lost my virginity to and our ties are close in the physical aspect but I AM SO CONFUSED!
2006-08-26 03:49:43 · 5 answers · asked by ((((only time will tell)))) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE is playing u, and ur letting him make a fool out of u. Move on. If you can't trust him no matter how much u love him, he won't change. You'll be better off on ur own. Respecting urself and your values is more important than being unhappy and insecure.
2006-08-26 03:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you were snooping through his things confirms there is no trust. You shouldn't have done that. If you knew his motives weren't right then you should have questioned him, or ended the relationship - it would have given him a reason to explain.
So what if you lost your virginity to him? I was raped - that doesn't mean i should have kept a relationship with him. Get out of your cloud coocoo land and move on with life. Don't get into his mess of lies, and you can find yourself a better guy. Sex shouldn't be the reason for you to stay with him.
2006-08-26 10:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by sugarsweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby just bcause he has other women's numbers on his phone doesn't mean that he has or is in the process of sleeping with them. There is such a thing as a platonic relationship and yes it does exist. If you begin to look for things you and you don't find them then what. I would say that you should either ring Cheaters or go with your heart. Last thing just because the man got your cherry isn't a reason to stay
2006-08-26 12:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by cemeya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he got mad when you confronted him means he is probably cheating on you.
You need to dump him and and get yourself a better man. YOUR WORTH IT.
2006-08-26 10:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by ozzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont fool yourself, once the trust is gone the end of your relationship is not far
2006-08-26 10:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋