I've been talking to this guy for a while. We're not official or anything just talking. Well one night we were hanging out and I was looking through his phone and I saw all these text messages from other girls and some of the girls were sending him dirty pictures. I shouldn't have gotten mad because we're not together and we don't have any rules about not talking to other people (a few hours before I was hanging out with another guy). Anyways I got mad and decided to leave and he had no clue why or that I was even mad. I don't even know if they even did anything. So the next night I was sending him text messages saying all this really mean horrible stuff to him (I mean horrible I had knots in my stomach the next morning from feeling so bad). I told him I was sorry and he just called me crazy and said I wasn't worth it. I still really want to talk to him and I have no clue why but I do. Is there anything I can do or say to win him back?
I know that I'm a hypocrite.
2006-08-26 03:41:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to take a deep breath...
Should you have looked through his phone? no.
Should you have sent messages? no.
Will you think twice before ever doing this again? yes.
Did you learn good lessons? yes.
Do you really want to be with someone who has all these girls all over him? no.
Will you meet somone wonderful who treats you well? yes. when you think you deserve it.
Really.
Calm down. The world hasn't ended.
You're not a hypocrite.
You're much smarter than you were before this happened.
And that's all very good.
Hang in there!!
2006-08-26 03:54:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from personal experience. Any guy who is getting dirty pictures from random girls isn't someone that you want to deal with anyway. However, if you really like him next time you get a chance to talk to him just be honest and explain what happened. I was playing with your phone and I saw pictures and text messages from other girls. I know we aren't together, but I like you more than I realized and I got really jealous. I shouldn't have reacted that way, but I got upset. I hope can talk about this and work it out. Something like that. Good luck!!
2006-08-26 10:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by ml1064 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs some space from you now. He didn't know why you went off on him, and he didn't deserve the mean things you said. He is right - to him you acted crazy.
You have apologized. I don't know how much you explained to him, but he sees trouble ahead if you are together. You may need to look at this as an important lesson. You cannot have two sets of rules. Both people in the relationship must go by the same set of rules. You blew it.
2006-08-26 10:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe just leave it alone , our tendency as females to over react can cause us much pain later . Just share you feelings a little more carefully next time ,we always want what we cant have hun nature of things ! Have we all at some point behaved hypocriticly of course in one way or another . Good luck
2006-08-26 10:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you lose Pyshcho , you claim you are just friends BUT storm out while hanging out wit hthis gu yand you wonder why he dont want to be around you !?!
Its easy , you got mad over his PEROSONAL photos and you are SNOPING .So he should be pissed at you not you pissed at him!
You are the type of female that give the good females a bad name and you should stop asking these silly questions like this one and then hate people like me who look at you and luagh in your face cuz you got the dumb *** look on your face thinking WHAT DID I DO WRONG ?
DUH you snooped and did not like what you found then before you even gave the gu ya chance to explain you walked out Screw you your lose someone elses gain ! MOVE ALONG
2006-08-26 10:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. you didnt mess up. You acted with your heart instead of your head. Alot of women do. Its not a big deal. Move on let it go. Just realize the mistake you made and try not to do it again.
2006-08-26 11:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you messed up big time!!!! i suggest if you really dig this dude ask for your forgiveness and give him a gift that comes straight from the heart. you decide what it is . but it gotta be something that he would favor you over all the other girls . ask yourself this question what do i have to do to get this boys attendtion? something that know one else would do for him and that alone would make you special towards him.
2006-08-26 10:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by richardstz19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like this guy and u wanna be with him talk to him tell him how u feel about him and tell him how sorry u are. just tell him the truth tell him everything that happend if he doesnt know. tell him y u were so mean to him. good luck
2006-08-26 10:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by faith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on...
if that was me, i'd break all ties and communication...
sorry, but you stepped WAY over the mark...
you could always try sending him some dirty pics with "SORRY" signs on them...
2006-08-26 10:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope i think that relationship is over. you need to get on with your life and date the other men.
2006-08-26 10:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋