Hello... My Name Is Julie, i'm 17.. me and my ex boyfriend were dating for a long time but then broke up.. within a year we got back together but i messed things up.. i wanted 2 see his reaction and made up a story about me dating some1 else while i was on vacation...now he's gone and i know he still loves me, his friends say he loves me still but he's going out on dates and moving on.. i send him around 5 messages every day and i call.. but he doesnt reply or pick up.... is it hopeless ?
2006-08-26 03:28:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u can get better
2006-08-26 03:46:18 · answer #1 · answered by bubba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not hopeless, but I feel you should have never made up a lie like that, because if you guys do hook back up then there may be a trust issue in voled why would be play a silly childish game like that anyway? But, my advice to you is back up some allow him to miss you the maybe in 2 or 3 weeks mail him a sweet " I miss you", card from Hallmark. Then wait for him to call you don't call him to see if he receive the card because you don't want to seem so forceful but try to wait at least 2 or 3 weeks if not longer with no contact at all. And in the mean try keep a journal of all you thoughts, talk to a close friend or family member to allow yourself to let him get over the fact, or what you said happened. Trust me: TRUE LOVE ALWAYS FINDS IT'S WAY BACK!!!!
2006-08-26 03:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by Ipsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You pretty much messed this up. You have ur whole life ahead of u. Go have fun and enjoy being single. Maybe somewhere down the line you guys will hook up again after a couple of years go by and ur more mature and experienced.
2006-08-26 03:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its wise not to play games and now you know that and have learned it the hard way. all you can do now is telll him how sorry you are and hope one day he will forgive you. Dont play games with peoplebe honest. you have hurt him ,he may not ever have you back. Im sorry its happened but it may be hopeless. right now you need to back off and give him some time.
2006-08-26 03:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just playing hard to get sweetie. He's trying his best to ignore but sooner or later he's gonna come back for you soon so dont worry about it....but if not i suggest u move on. if u need more help email me at mizz_minney@yahoo.com
2006-08-26 03:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by baby_lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh u shouldn't have done that,that's so immature.When we love someone we don't play games with their sentiments nor test their feelings.It is hopeless.Move on and don't u ever do that again.U have to be serious.However someday u might be able to explain to him, u 'd better talk to him face to face,.I hope things work out for u but pliz grow up ok?trust those u love.
2006-08-26 03:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl, cheer up!
I know it feels bad but try to move on and forget him. But don't make the same mistake again. No games in a relationship!!
2006-08-26 03:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by Spicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop calling him becasue your bothering him like that. u have to be strong and let him come to u. and if he doesnt just move on with your life your still young. if he really loves u he'll come back don't worry. good luck
2006-08-26 03:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by faith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is mad dear, you blew it, wait awhile then try to explain to him that you lied (which will probably make him mad again and not trust you ).
Stop calling him so much. He will talk to you when and if he is ready. I no you don't want to hear this but it's true, I have been in your shoes when I was your age.
2006-08-26 03:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by couchP56 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on...If your're going to play games, you're not mature enough for a serious relationship anyway.
2006-08-26 03:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by gardenpartygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lesson learned huh? i hope you didnt lose him over that lesson. once you break trust in relationship very hard to gain back!!give him some space im sure he knows by now that you are very sorry.only time will tell but you must give it time
2006-08-26 03:32:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋