when it gets to the point whereby my suspicions are too strong, I just end it without giving a reason. Also due to the lack of trust, I can never just sit and talk it out. I do realise that things have to change but how?
2006-08-26 03:17:15 · 13 answers · asked by Sugababe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't have a relationship without trust. This is something you need to work through. Maybe you have been hurt in the past, but you can't bring that to future relationships if you want them to work.
the good news is that you can work through it, date someone you can relate too and talk to him about your trust issus
2006-08-26 03:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take control of the situation. If you're gonna do it use your own condoms. If you're going to do it, make sure you get what you need from the experience. If you think there's a problem bring your own cell phone and car. That way trust is not such a big problem. The only time trust comes into it is when you get serious with someone. Otherwise if there is any embarassment you can always turn the situation around. No problem.
One thing you DO need to know is if the other person has any std's. Check em out good, and ask questions, and ask around before doing anything.
Other trust matters are taken care of by your checking the internet, or hiring a PI (if you're serious about them), checking them out thoroughly.
2006-08-26 03:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with yourself for one. are these really their issues or yours? for one you can't live one what someone else has done to you in the past. obviously u've been hurt but you need to move on or you'll never be happy. why can't you talk to the person your with. i mean if you can have sex with them why not share a feeling or thoughts. i'd do some deep soul searching and spend some time with a good girlfriend. maybe a guy isn't the answer right now. i know it's not easy but it's also not fair to ur partner.
2006-08-26 03:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by liketoplay420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem the following is that no one likes to take heed to the reality, and fairly if the "yahoo answerer" opt for to bypass with the gut fairly of being sympathetic. I actual ought to disagree, your husband is a classic guy, and he's in basic terms as typical in his favor to look at porn fabric to get his kicks, and also you extremely do not have any evidence that he's being unfaithful, and it must be a submit toddler complicated which also arises and in no way unavoidably immediately after the toddler. There are 2 factors to this tale of yours, one is the "dishonest" and that has 2 connotations, i.e. the act of being unfaithful i.e. drowsing with some different person, or b) he's not being straightforward about his events and protecting them secret. So he has not per se "cheated " because he has not slept with some different person? Then there is mendacity, which this dishonest that he has performed, i.e. protecting it to himself ought to come lower than more beneficial properly. do not stress him away.. you've a thoroughly typical chap there, and he of route loves you. inspite of all of your ranting and raving, even although he's withdrawn because he does not choose an difficulty, he nonetheless has not left bodily. Your ideal position is to get some drugs out of your clinical professional because you ought to be having one hell of a existence with the 7 month toddler, the housekeeping, the very incontrovertible reality that you've also likely fears and doubts about your make certain after the toddler, there must be different submerged emotions and anxieties that you've after the being pregnant. So fairly of badgering him about his habit the position he's making an attempt to delight you and positively stay at domicile fairly of going to a distinct females (i.e. porn web pages and so on).. provide him some area, provide him some privateness and do not look at each thing he does, do something about your self and be sensible about your self. He loves you, and that is all that concerns. the the rationalization why he's mendacity is because the reality will harm you and also you ought to then have an difficulty about it and that's you who're making him lie because he can't get out of answering you and he has to fabricate an answer! it is also conceivable to be feeling very insecure after the beginning of your toddler. it truly is all typical:).. yet you want to regulate it on your own good, your toddler and your husband. i'll desire for you. :)
2016-11-27 22:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by haglund 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let it lose a bit but you should know which guy is lying which isnt read some tips on how to catch a cheating lover on this site
2006-08-26 03:20:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need help, or u need to go after a new breed of male. all males are different. it's not fair to everyone else ,cuz a few losers tainted ur feelings. Ya know?
2006-08-26 03:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by J.M. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys lie, and not all women tell the truth either. with trust you will find someone and give the trust to them little by little until you give him all the trust.
2006-08-26 03:21:17 · answer #7 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody male or female deserves trust
we have to earn trust
this takes time
my actual mother has told lies about me when she has been pissed..if ya cant trust ur own mother who can u trust?
2006-08-26 03:27:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they lies den just tell 'em dun lies in d situation, cos if they keep on lyin n lying nxt time den d situation will sure gettin' worst. Tell 'em 2b honest 'bout it.
2006-08-26 04:23:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't trust women they are nearly all evil
2006-08-26 03:21:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋