Please help me how to overcome ,may be your words releive.
2006-08-26 03:08:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're meaning in a relationship, here's my story.
My parents were strict and I couldn't date until I was 16 then a guy had to ask..no one ever asked.
I went to college for two years then came home and started to work at Wal-Mart, I met this guy there, he was very good looking, tall, really built, and not bad on the eyes. He never showed interest then out of the blue he did. We dated for about two maybe three months...I can look back now and see things wrong with the relationship. (He took what he wanted- if ya know what I mean- when ever I wanted to hang out he was busy, but when I'd drive around he'd be at his old gf's house. He talked me into buying a really nice car only to wreck it then smash my heart into a million pieces when he left me for the Marines. To add to it when he was gone he wrote and told me he sstill though about him and I as a "us".)
How I got over the pain was the most wonderful guy..he was a friend and from the beginning. I knew him he wanted to date me but I wasn't sure ( this was before the other guy) once my heart was broke this guy pulled me aside and gave me the reality slap in the face I needed. He told me that he wanted to be with me and I needed to realize the first guy never cared. (Most everyone else did the "I told you so" stuff.)
The end to my very long babble--I've been married to the second guy for nearly 13 years now and I could not be happier!
It will get better-- Time does not heal but it does make the burt more bearable.
2006-08-26 03:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no easy way. just know ur not alone by a long shot. this is a feeling millions of us have experienced. litterally millions. the best advice i can give you is learn from the mistakes you made and take the time to better yourself in some way. time is the only true thing that will heal. lean on ur family and friends and know time will help to ease the rest. good luck : o )
2006-08-26 10:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by liketoplay420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone just broke my heart too and the only way that am surviving it now is by having the believe that she is not the right girl for me and that she is giving way for the right one to come and it's the hand work of God. and one thing u must not do is THINKING do not think about it at all and do not be alone or kind of lonely, hang out with friends go out for chopping and visit other male friends of urs and be friendly. that will help u to cope within that period before apology comes from the offender coz u wont be having time thinking about it. but learn how to forgive.
2006-08-26 10:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by Peace G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I've been hurt many times but the worst time I got hurt was when my best friend at the time hooked me up with one of her "guy friends" and i liked him so much and come to find out the only reason she hooked us up was so she could attempt to stop cheating on her fiance with him. It didnt work she still cheated on her fiance with my boyfriend at the time. I got over it, but it definitely took a while. You really just have to let your mind clear of everything and just try to move on. I still don't think I've fully forgiven her of the whole thing. I am really glad that situation did happen to me because If i didnt move on and just sulked I would have never met the man of my dreams who is now my husband :)
2006-08-26 10:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by MrsFrye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its happens to everyone now and then but the only thing i can think of is when it happen to me i took time and got over it with my family members and all my friends. people do so many things to help but no guy or girl is worth your troubles at the end of the day your family and friends will be there... that all i can think of!!!
2006-08-26 10:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel and my advice is it is like a virus let it run its corse try your best to wash that person from you memory. But when your older you will look back and say it was a good life lesson.
2006-08-26 10:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by KayDaviam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some tips on how to over come and move on after a break up
2006-08-26 10:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time to move on but u have to stay strong and stop thinking about it. listen to music but not sad onece. keep your self busy go out with friends try to have fun. just dont think about it. as much as u can keep your self busy with something. dont look back think about your future. good luck
2006-08-26 10:31:34 · answer #8 · answered by faith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, when i was young i was in a very bad relationship and it took me 2yrs to end it and when i finally did i felt lost, but you just have to pull yourself together and say i'm better than that and move on. it will get better, time works wonders.
2006-08-26 10:14:49 · answer #9 · answered by mandiej81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when meet face to face just pretent to see other place
when you say something to her pretant she was busy
to overcome
just ignore her all the time
2006-08-26 10:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by yclcool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋