ok here my promblem this guy i like alot he means the world to me he supports me and all this stuff well here the thing he 28 i am 20 and everyone thinks that a big deal... my dad made the comment if i start dating him he will never talk to me what should i do?? because i really like him and he helps me out when no one cares.. and i just want people to be happy for me that i have someone like that to go too for anything just i am confused what should i do???
2006-08-26 03:02:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 33 and my husband is 27. I met him when I was 26 and he was 20. We have been together for 7 years. There is really no problem with it. It is really hard to find someone who really understands and supports you. He might be your sole mate and when you find your sole mate keep them close. Your father will get over it. Go with your heart!
2006-08-26 03:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by headdy30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like and love is different thing. Now this guy care for you.
is ok that you be a friend first then see whether both of you confetable to get together. Then only you got a confident to show your parent that when you with him are very happy. This also prove that this guy can give you the happyness that you like to have. That is what your parent care about.They are just care about you worry that you get lie from the stranger that they did not know you see.
you have to understand how our parent feel. Then only you can adjust the situation. Hope this will help
wish u all the best.
2006-08-26 10:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by yclcool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly, I agree with you father for the following reasons. I saw the word Support, and he helps me out. What about the word LOVE???? If you REALLY LOVE the man then it should not matter what Daddy or anyone thinks. However by the question I just read you do not love the guy or you wouldn't be confussed. Remember he may be your friend for NOW!! But your dad must know something about the guy or he would not stand in your way.
2006-08-26 10:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by Weatherman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this but I agree with your father. At your age, 28 is a little to old for you. You're just a puppy in the ways of life and he has been around the block a time or two. Date someone your own age.
2006-08-26 10:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by Texan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There comes a point in everyone's life when they need to start living their own life. You cannot continue to worry about what everyone says and that includes your parents. The age difference is not an issue. You are both adults. I think you should just do what you think is best.
2006-08-26 10:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is just a number. if u really like this guy and he likes you then go for it. I'm sure that ur dad will understand, and he will forgive you.
2006-08-26 10:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 38 and my wife is 27, age doesnt matter.
We get along great....
2006-08-26 10:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by got_shots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay any attention to people who won't let you be happy. Stay with him as long as your happy and he's happy.
2006-08-26 10:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to live your own life,and live by your decisions
2006-08-26 10:09:08 · answer #9 · answered by outback 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your heart dear.u have to decide wat r ur priorties dear. if u love him truly, age doesnt matters in the case of friendship, sex love ;)
2006-08-26 10:08:37 · answer #10 · answered by sardar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋