i was going out with this dude. and i found out that my best friend liked him so i thought it was messed up for me to b going out with him so i broke up with him. but i think im like in love with him. he says he feels the same way but he likes my friend. he says hes cares about me a lotand would chose me over her. but iono. he wants her to go to his house today and they say nothing will happen but i meen come on. u konw sumhting will. shes been my bestfriend for 6 years. and i only think that if shes happy it doesnt mattter how other ppl feel. my mom told me to give both of them a break and not tlk to them for a while but i dont think i can do that. they both meen the world to me. wat do i do?
2006-08-26 02:41:25 · 12 answers · asked by kole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get rid of both of them and move on.
2006-08-26 02:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by catstu9526 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that this guy doesn't want to make a commitment to be your b/f and only go out with you. He might find you attractive, but he also finds your best friend attractive. Maybe he would go out with both of you. How would you feel about that? Does your g/f want him for a b/f?
For sure he doesn't "love" you if he wants to have this other girl over to his house and be alone with her. I don't know how old you are, but could you be feeling sexual attraction for this guy instead of actually being in love with him? A lot of young people mistake one for the other.
If what you are feeling is romantic and sexual attraction for this guy then your problem is less serious because we can feel that for a lot of people. One thing is for sure, this guy does not want to date just one girl. If you are looking for someone to be your b/f you will have to keep on looking. But, you seem like a nice thoughtful girl and probably will not have to wait long before you find someone.
2006-08-26 03:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to move on. This is coming from a guy. If he loves you he would not want to be with her. He just wants to play you both. And as for the fact of them saying that they will not do anything, thats a lie. Cuase i have been in that place where the guy is, and hell yes you do stuff. She is not the best friend in the world either, but they say chicks before *****. Just move on sweetie.
2006-08-26 02:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by omax236 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lost him. Even if your friend likes YOU MAN doesn't mean u give him to her. If you had a million dollars and your friend wants a millions dollars, that doesn't mean u give it all to her. All though that's a bad example cause u can't share a boyfriend like money, but you get my point. You messed this up. Dont break up with a boyfriend unless YOU DONT LIKE HIM ANYMORE.
2006-08-26 02:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's someting wrong in this, I'm sure about that. A guy says that he likes 2 girls at the same time is not a good guy. U & ur friend like a wrong guy. U should tell her and stay away from him. Tell her it's not worth liking such guy
2006-08-26 03:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by ToaN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
juss leave him now befor everthing goes to pieces hes the 1 thats wrong i no im juss some person givin you advice but i site at hom e and all i think about is him after hes lied to me and after he said he felt the same way than toke it back 10 times bc of my "best friend" i dont no y im close to lovin him but i am and i cant stop it so jus pls dont go on u wont be able to controll it it wount ever stop so juss leave him and dont go back
2006-08-26 02:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was your best friend then she should have respected the fact that you were going out with him. You may be her friend but I would question her friendship to you. She shouldn't take her trifling butt over his house. Yeah something is going to happen I will put money on it. Furthermore if he really liked you he would NOT I repeat NOT have asked her over.
2006-08-26 02:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by CherrieMartini69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's trying to have a slice of both cakes. Bad news girl, not what you want to hear, but he sounds like trouble.
2006-08-26 02:46:52 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out with both and then chose the one you like the best
2006-08-26 02:46:39 · answer #9 · answered by nas88car300 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about the two of them
2006-08-26 02:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by Goldah N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋