why should i live in this world.........i have parents who just dont want to see and talk with me.............i had only one reoson to live......and that was my love ''my bf" but after his death .....my that reoson also died......now i dont want to live.......but people say htat live...why should i live??
i m just trying to survive any how in this world......but why? why should i survive in this boring world.......for whom i should live???
answer me!!!
2006-08-26 02:26:52 · 35 answers · asked by kshitija s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should ask yourself a different question "why should i die"?It appears you have gone through a lot of disappointments in life. Death is inevitable.Only time can heal your wounds.Know one thing just because you WERE alive you loved "my bf". So you can continue to live and hope for another good friendship which can always come your way.The decision to die can be taken at any time .It will involve only a few minutes. So why break your head . Give life a chance. You can always find friends who can be turning points in your life.Get out of that depression and go ahead and do good things.You can do it in the memory of your boy friend and you can enjoy the felling that HE is appreciating your outlook towards life.All the best.
2006-08-26 02:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by crazyd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my dear there is a reason for you to live. Even though your parents may not love you or your boyfriend died don't give because God is there for you and he will take care of your problem. Note that. May be God is testing you. Just put your trust in God and he will make you happy through out your life and you can still find another guy who will love and cherish you just like the first one. Take heart my dear. Life is full with ups and downs. When one door closes this way another opens the other way. Just be patient. There is this saying that a patient dog eats the fattest bone. No matter the situation in live there is always a situation. Don't worry God will make a way where there seems to be no way.
2006-08-26 02:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by Goldah N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like life has really thrown you some curves. I'm sorry to hear about that. But things will get better. They always do. That's the way life is.
Life has hills and valleys, like a roller coaster or any long journey. Sometimes you're up, sometimes you're down. Just know that your life will get better. Then it'll get worse. Then better again, etc. and so on ...
Live for yourself. Life will be interesting again, I guarantee it. It's hard right now, but try to endure the hurt you feel now. It's not easy, but there's a way to deal with it. More on that later.
A few years ago, my father died. Two years later, my brother died. Those years were really hard on me and my family. My brother left a wife and son behind. My sister-in-law and nephew took things especially hard.
I never want to relive those years. But I survived them.
And about dealing with the hurt you feel now: This is something that helped me cope: Take life in little bites. If you can't make it to next week, try to make it to tomorrow. If you can't make it to tomorrow, try to make it to the next meal. If that doesn't work, try to make it to the next hour or minute.
You ever hear that the things that don't kill you make you stronger? I have, and I believe it. I'm stronger now than I was before those deaths in my family. There's still empty space in my heart for my father and brother, but my life got better.
Yours will, too.
2006-08-26 03:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losing someone u love is a very hard time in ur life, i know coz i lost my best friend, my cousin and my grandpa, all in just 3 months. But death should make u want 2 think about life. See the good instead of the bad. Remember God has a plan and that death was just a hurdle in your way. God tests us this way.
I will pray 4 u.
2006-08-26 02:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by Adonis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are here for a reason. God lets you wake up every morning and see another day because he has a plan for you. How do you know he wont bless you with another great love? Or that one day you will have kids and get married and live a happy life? You might want to share your experiences in your life with other people....you never know you could be helping other people by sharing. I really hope you decide to move forward in your life. Maybe you should try getting some counseling so you can tell someone how you feel. Sometimes letting it all out helps too. And dont forget to get to go to church and get God in your life. I guarantee you will see changes then. Good luck!
2006-08-26 02:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by specialme9 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's the question I ask myself when I am really down... I suggest you find more and more friends (I think the friends you have now are cool too because of the things they tell you, "but people say htat live")
Time usually erases things and so you will get to feel much better, sweetheart
2006-08-26 02:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by myfl_a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a song I heard and to me it really means a lot, I hope you will listen to it and take it to heart as I have.
Artist: Jo Dee Messina
Song title: Bring On The Rain
Another day has almost come and gone
Can't imagine what else could go wrong
Sometimes I'd like to hide away somewhere and lock the door
A single battle lost but not the war, cause
Tomorrow's another day
And I'm thirsty anyway
So bring on the rain
It's almost like the hard times circle round
A couple drops and they all start coming down
Yeah I might feel defeated, I might hang my head
I might be barely breathing but I'm not dead
Tomorrow's another day
And I'm thirsty anyway
So bring on the rain
I'm not gonna let it get me down, I'm not gonna cry
And I'm not gonna lose any sleep tonight
Cause tomorrow's another day
And I am not afraid
So bring on the rain
and I'm thirsty anyway, so bring on the rain.
No, I'm not gonna let it get me down.
I'm not gonna cry
So bring on the rain.
2006-08-26 02:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you live?? Well Look at it this way... The Lord gave up his life for you. And if you go and Kill yourself then you are going against the Lord. And you will go to hell. And I think you would feel alot better going to Heaven. So maybe you should go and talk to the Lord and get saved. By turning to the Lord you will feel alot better. Who cares what other people say or think or do about you. The Lord should be number one in your life, and you should follow him. And by going off and killing yourself would not be something the Lord would want you to do. You can think Im crazy or whatever, but if you truley go and talk to the Lord, go to a chruch or somthing. It will help. Least give that a try. Good luck, and turn yourself to the Lord!!!
2006-08-26 02:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by Piper 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should live because of someone in the future who will be your partner, maybe now you dont meet him. being alive show you that you are a winner. you can keep alive by believe everything will change.
i know how you feel... i have felt the pain 5 years ago. on that time i cant feel anything or what is the meaninhg of life. nothing was a happy thing but when i meet a him, the world start to be a happy thing, everyday was a brand new excitement to me. its good to be alive.
2006-08-26 02:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you should live for yourself - think about the things that are important to you. You have loved and in time you may love again. Dont go looking for it - give yourself time to grieve. Dont bash yourself up that you are the one left. Read a good book - feel the words - become the words - let yourself learn about what and who you are before you try to come to any decisions.
2006-08-26 02:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by Red Robin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋