2006-08-26 02:25:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sooner or later he will find out. I would suggest you just set up an appropriate time to tell him and tell him. Be prepared for his feelings to be hurt, and also be prepared for him to possibly break up with you.
2006-08-26 02:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by moose_skinner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you don't tell him the full truth... does he really need to know that? It will most likely hurt his feelings, and end in a conflict betwen you two.
My advice would be to just give the general "this isn't working" way of breaking up.. Don't tell him you cheated, don't say it was his fault..
And maybe if you feel this way again in a relationship break up with the guy as soon as you realise you want another relationship.. it will save the stress and worry?
2006-08-26 02:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by pola_pink_ocd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your "tired" of him, then you have to be honest with yourself and to him and just tell him why your tired of him and maybe he can change his ways. But if you dont like him anymore then you have to get out of the relationship right now before anymore bad stuff goes down.
Now for you cheating on him, well thats kinda wrong, but sometimes things just need to not be discussed so if you can hide it from him just the one time then fine, but if you cant, then do yourself a favor and just end it with him.
I hoped this helped!
2006-08-26 02:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. A adult toy woulda been a better bet.
Also. If you tell him. He may .. MAY forgive you.
I tend to believe this little bit of advice.
"Once a cheater always a cheater."
If I am interested in a girl and I find out she cheated on a guy in the past. I would be reluctant to date her.
Good luck with whatever you do.
2006-08-26 02:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Boon Goonie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
laffing. Ok I get it. your last question was about how you don't like sex on a daily basis, and this one tells me you weren't getting enough. You are kidding around.
Walk up to the new guy and rub him between his legs in front of your bf. That will send the message loud and clear.
2006-08-26 02:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are tired of him, dump him. Why do you people keep cheating on each other? Why can't you just break up with some one and leave them alone?
2006-08-26 02:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a firm believer that if you cheat and are truly sorry for that and your not going to do it again. why do you want to hurt the one you love. it was your mistake, your sin, live with it and keep it to yourself. if you cant live with your mistake then tell him but don't plan on him sticking around and forgiving you.
if you fear someone else is going to tell him about it, its better to hear it from you.
i truly feel that sometimes we need to keep our indiscretions to ourselves and carry the guilt alone.
2006-08-26 02:56:36 · answer #7 · answered by eaglerock60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy. Your relationship is over. There is nothing you can say to make anything better. Just tell him "We are done." and let it go. Having a big talk is just to make you feel better, and you've already made your choice.
2006-08-26 02:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by teacher2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a very delicate relation if u hv cheated ur b|fthen u must feel sory for it .be bold and beautiful.b straight forward
2006-08-27 07:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got a dear John letter when i was in Iraq...i wanted to beat the **** out of both of them...but what goes around comes around...now she is miserable and that dude dumped her...you owe it to him to either let him know or break up with him...if it was the other way around...wouldnt u want to know?
2006-08-26 02:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by RRRRRRRRomero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋