is it possible to love two people at once?

Question

im not allowed to date but theres this girl tht i really lyk and she really lyks me...well 1 day she decided tht since i cannot date she can get a boyfriend and love me and him at the same time..i dont feel good bout it...shes probably makin out wit him and other stuff and just using me as another guy 2 b with...should i forget about her or should i still have feeloings for her

Answer 1

Many Muslims have up to four wives and love them all equally, or so they claim. And members of the Fundamentalist Church of Latter Day Saints under the Rev. Warren Jeffs in Colorado City, AZ and Hildale., UT have many wives whom they love.

Jimmy Goldsmith had one family in London and one in Paris. Polygamy may be illegal, but millions of men have concubines or second families. I could name a few lesser-known men who've done likewise, some quite successful, but I won't do it here.

Answer 2

It's a difficult question. Isn't "romantic love" something that you can feel for one person, because they're the one you'd do anything for and you feel uniquely passionate towards them? By "loving" somebody else, doesn't that wipe-out the "love" with the other person automatically?

I don't think you can. Not in my opinion.

Oh, and get rid of this girl. Why do you wanna be with somebody like that? I'll be blunt, she's just playing you. Move on, kid.

Answer 3

Any girl that would propose this to you is not into you at all, like you had suspected I would say she's just using you to fill up her empty slot on her schedule book.

If the girl is really into you, no obstacle will stop her from coming to see you to getting together with you. She's is fleeing at the first sign of minor obstacle, that just proof that she was just playing around until someone she really had feelings for to show up and move on.

Forget about her, you will find someone much, much better later on~

Answer 4

Forget about her. If she is sharing herself with anothery guy, it is robbing from you and she is not totally committed to you. Of course it would make you feel bad, she is basically using you! But to answer your question, you can love two people at once but not in the same way. You know, like how you like a parent or sibling and then there's your lover. True love is only reserved for one person, it is unselfish and devoted to that one person. Sounds like she doesn't know what love is.

Answer 5

It is not possible to love 2 people at the same time, one id love the other is lust, this girl gotta ask herslef whom shes in love with or whom she lusts fr ,and make a choice, i think u shud just move on and stop yrslef from loosing yr heart to her befre u get v hurt,

Answer 6

so difficult is your predicimint. I was not allowed to date for a long time. But I built strong friendships and found I was a stronger person and more ineresting person. I hope you can develop a deep friendship with her, and not be jealous. It is her loss that she has chosen this route, to ansawer, yes, I think you can love many people in many ways all at once. bless you, good luck in your choice.

Answer 7

It not possible to love two people at a time because the love will not be equal. So I think you should just forget abouth her and look else where

Answer 8

well it all depends on how strong your love is for this girl if right now you can't be with her if she loved you then she should wait for you, you 2 should sit downa dn have a heart to heart about this lay everything thing down on the table and if you guys can't come to an agreement then you 2 should just be friends

Answer 9

if you're not allowed to date then you're too young to be in love, and remember girls are evil and just suck the life force out of you, wait until after college to fall in love, you'll have a lot more fun

Answer 10

yes its possibble but this if they dont know each other becoz before u get married you have to enjoy ur teen meeting different people of both sex and you will meet the right person and u will have a choice