2006-08-26 02:11:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop being afraid and tell him you don't want to do it everynight. If he gets angry (which he might), tell him that it loses it charm if you're constantly at it every single night. If he doesn't respect what you've asked then he obviously isn't a good boyfriend and you should consider ending this charade!
2006-08-26 02:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lets c... yes u r lucky this guy wants 2 do it all the time.. however, i can understand if u dont (not really, but i'll try). u know there r so many things that u can do without having intercourse, if that is the prob. but at this point i would like 2 ask why is it that u dont want 2, is there something that he does, or doesnt do that u wish he would or wouldnt. if there is, then would u please voice ur opinion 2 him. he will never know if u dont tell him. men cant read minds, believe me, i know this 4 a fact. i never used 2 speak up & tell them what i liked or didnt like & i wasnt all that satisfied. now it has become my goal, i should b taken care of 1st in every way, my way, every time. maybe u 2 should invest in some sex toys, this would certainly add 2 the excitement.. get some porn, & surprise him with it. watch it tog, & watch the sparks fly. please dont b put off by this thot, i didnt think i would like it at all & now i am the one goin 2 all the downloads. anything u can think of 2 get the juices flowing. and my guy likes it 2.no it doesnt have 2 b everyday, but i bet u can comes up with a good solution. good luck
2006-08-26 09:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by ladydi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you are not older enough to be having sex because you cannt assert yourself and tell your guy what you want.
But you are having sex, and that's that so here's my answer. Inform your boyfriend that you do not want to have sex with him every night. Personally, I feel having sex all the time takes away from the specialness of the act, and almost makes it a chore. Making love SHOULD NOT be a chore for you, and it sounds like your having to do...not wanting to do it.
If you inform him of your opinion, and he disregards what you say and still wants it every night, you need to break up with him. He's not respecting you and you need to get out of that relationship before you waste your whole life away on a schmuck who cares nothing about you and your opinions.
2006-08-26 09:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by rachael b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is using you to relieve himself. He is giving no thought whatsoever to your feelings or what you want in this relationship. Do you really want to continue to be with someone who values you so little? Sexual attraction is great in a relationship but if there's nothing else, it gets old and boring. Don't let him flatter you and don't flatter yourself that you just turn him on. A goat could turn a guy like this on. Quit being used and get rid of him.
2006-08-26 09:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and your problem is? ya gots a few choices, leave him, get angry with him, submit to him (my favorite), or die. We men know women get tired of it day in and day out, but our wiring is such that we really can't help ourselves. Don't be mad at him for wanting it from you ever night. Get mad when you know he wants it every night, just not from you. If you can't handle that advise, you need to live alone.
2006-08-26 09:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by kram k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him, you made the choice to do so you can make the choice not to. And if it matters that much to him then he isn't with you because he loves you he is with you because you give him what he wants. He's not worth it. Goodluck whatever path you take.
2006-08-26 09:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by Little one 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think he really loves u , u must speak to him. physical relation must be from both side not from 1 side. if he forces u than he is just meeting his physical needs through u, and this is not done for love. leave him.
2006-08-26 09:24:04 · answer #7 · answered by sammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so does mine i just say no....... cuz he doesnt act like a man but a big begging whiny baby. no art of seduction? then get lost duh. if they cant seduce you into it, then they have to get lost n shut their lame mouths. plus I agree with nicola....tell him that every night u wanna do some sexual act.one he surely wont like if ya know what i mean. then act all pissed when u dont get it. thatll scare him off. men scare us off, its only fair.
2006-08-26 12:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by safarlsun33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told him that you don't want to? If he keeps pushing you then he obviously has no respect for your feelings.
2006-08-26 09:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by ncladams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop meeting him and make it clear to him tht if he loves you only for having sex,he can go to the prostitute.there r many of them
2006-08-26 09:16:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋