girls do you get mad when your guys go out?

Question

do you get mad when your boyfriend goes out with the guys. I get so mad because he acts like he loves them more than he loves me. He says hes not cheating on me and is apualled that I would even think that but he goes out with the guys like 2 times a week. what do you think?

Answer 1

thanks GOD i thought am the only girl that feels that way i get soooo mad when my bf go hang out with guys but i know its selfish from me

Answer 2

From a male perspective, you shouldn't worry about this at all - seriously. All men like to go out with guys, and if he's only doing it twice a week, that's not a lot! I go out with the guys maybe five or six nights a week, especially now it's the summer. It's just a thing, and there's nothing to worry about at all. He's not going out to meet other girls, I'm sure, and you shouldn't accuse him of "cheating" because that's a real insult if he isn't.

To be honest, men like the company of men because they bounce off of each other well - but it doesn't mean he likes them more than you. I love my guy friends but I am IN LOVE with my girlfriend - I adore her more than anybody in the world.

All of HER friends are guys, so imagine how I must feel when they go out? Jealous, I'll admit, but I still have to trust her and I know in reality she would never, ever, ever cheat on me.

I'd suggest you just relax and try not worry about it! If he's acting like he loves them more than he loves you, he's probably just excited about spending some quality time with the guys! I can assure you that you have nothing to worry about.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Wow only twice? That leaves 5 out of 7 days where you and he can have some quality time, think about that instead. Guys will always want to go out with the boys that's why you should make sometime for yourself as well. He's having fun, so why are you at home worrying about that? Get out and have some fun to, you might even make him jealous, then he may understand how you feel when he's with the guys.

Answer 4

r u telling me that u dont like 2 have ur own space?? come on girl get with the program.. dont u have some friends that u want 2 go out with. this is ur perfect opportunity. if only i had had that prob. mine was 2 possessive. i couldnt do anything, but he could. got rid of him & good riddance. if he is just out with the guys, let him b a guy. u could however make him think he is missing out on something by leaving. why dont u plan a really hot & wild nite of sex just 4 the 2 of u, do it often, not just his 2 nites wekks. do something that will make him want 2 blow them off & stay home with u. i dont have 2 tell u all the things there r 2 do 2 entice him,(well if u do, u can send me a note) but anyway, get out there & have some fun. life is 2 short 2 b sitting home being grumpy.

Answer 5

Women's initial reaction would probably be a YES. Part of our DNA I guess, but if you are confident enough and you know where you are in his life, then you should feel relaxed and you should give him his space and let him enjoy his time with his friends.

It isn't all about Love and Trust, Respect is also important. You're boyfriend should also inform you if he's going out with them. Twice a week isn't bad. Men, doesn't like it when you become overly possessive towards them.

Let him be...chill with your girlfriends too!

Answer 6

Let him go out and have some fun with his mates as well as spending time with you. He is probably not cheating but if you stop him seeing his mates he will begin to resent you and then you will have problems. I think he needs time out with his mates too. He loves you, you have to trust him. Don't get mad. He also shouldn't be mad when you have time with your female friends. It goes both ways you know so he has to trust you when you need time to yourself as well.

Answer 7

start having a girls night out and see how jealous he gets. I go out with the girls when he goes out with the guys. i don't worry about him cheating because most of the guys are good friends of mine too and they would let me know.

Answer 8

Sometimes but u cant expect him to ONLy see u! U cant be a jealous spaz or he will break up with u! He has to see his friends sometimes! Just not like all the time! If he was just talking toi u on the phone, and spending all his time with his friends and never seeing you, then u could be mad!

Answer 9

You should remeber that evethough you are together, he is still an indiviual, and needs to go out with his mates to have fun, dont be so clingingy, usually what makes a guy feel like he needs to get out with his mates is if he feels suffocated by the woman, so when he goes out with the guys you go out with the girls, and enjoy yourself, dont be worrying where, and who else he is with, life is too short.

Answer 10

well you don't trust him do you? Every guy should and does go out with his mates often it doesn't mean he loves you any less but he is allowed friends you know. I bet he lets you see your friends. Don't be so possessive or he will be the one leaving you. Give him a break it's only twice a week, thats nothing compared to most guys i know. He just wants male company aswell theres nothing wrong with that. He should be allowed to go out and socialise, you aren't his mum love!

Answer 11

He needs a bit of freedom. If you don't go out with your friends, I recommend you start. It's important to keep a part of your self separated from the one you love. Maintain a sense of self & individuality. Don't live by depending on his actions for your self-worth.
On a side note, if he accuses you of wrongdoing when you're out without him, he's probably guilty of something. Those who accuse, do.