Me and this guy have been friends for 5 yrs. he just got out of a 9yr relationship with his babies mama. well we have always flirted and stuff but it never went anywhere. mainly cause i am not like that. well we were out a week ago at the club me him my best friend and my sister. well next thing ya know he kisses me. thi sis confusing to me . baffles me . well of course natural instinct is to kiss back. Now things are weird between us, but i cant stop thinkin about it either. help me i am confused. i dont know what to.please give me some advice
2006-08-26 01:45:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just give him another kiss.
2006-08-26 02:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by greatbuddy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well there is maybe some attraction going on, maybe a little adventure, little fun waiting to happen, but that might be it.
I suggest you too hang out again, have fun. If after a few times of hanging out you still feel the same way then take it a step further if not then call quits and dont be weird about ....just act like is cool and move on.
2006-08-26 08:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by kinito_2000_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just broke off a 9 year relationship?? He looks at you as a replacement. ( did he have a banana in his pocket when he kissed you, or was he just glad to see you)? He just wants you body, that's all. Be careful or you could be babies mama#2
2006-08-26 09:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Michael S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh just think about you're feelings about the kiss and about this Guy... And take it from there.. And consider this.. You guys were in a club.. he might have been drunk or just felt like doing something fun..... or he might feel he needs a Re-bound girl since he just got out of that relationship.
2006-08-26 08:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by disturbedredrum 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about it, but first figure out what you want from your relationship from him. If you are interested in him, you should let him know, but if you are afraid he is on the rebound, you should also let him know that and tell him that you want to take it really slow. Use caution, don't jump in either direction too harshly, if you do want some type of relationship with him.
2006-08-26 08:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by Alice S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u shud be careful because it could be a rebound although he may have felings for you he may be feeling rele insecure at the moment just spliting up with his gf of nine years. maybe u shud just ask why did u kiss me? you have nothing to loose and at least then you will kno where u stand with him. u cant ruin a freidnship if its weird between you. you can only resolve it and make it better. just tlk to him!!!
2006-08-26 08:55:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do what feels right to you. i know the feeling, but ive already made the mistake of not doing anything about it. now im here, about 8000 miles away from her, and she told me she loved me the night before the move. do what feels right, but do it fast, or youll regret it, eh?
2006-08-26 08:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by Panzer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,maybe you felt something about hom but did not know how to express it or better still,its just mere infatuation.
2006-08-26 08:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by Aliyu J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r not goin' out wit the guy start dating
2006-08-26 08:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you interested in him, if you are, talk to him and see where it leads you
2006-08-26 08:50:07 · answer #10 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you maybe more than friends....becareful
2006-08-26 08:48:29 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋