I try so hard to get us close, or to be just fine with each other but she is so selfish. She just ignores all 'my hard try outs'...
2006-08-26 01:43:25 · 20 answers · asked by Devil^Cat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have 7 sisters, or should I say had, My younger sister was sort of the black sheep of the family, but she loved being with us. We could not tolerate her life style and didn't pay to much attention to her. We are all extremely close and love one another. We all loved her too, but she wouldn't listen to anyone's advice about the way she was living. One night she called and asked if she could come stay with me or one of my other sisters, because her boyfriend was beating her. Yeah, right, we said. She died 3 days later. Don't leave your sister out of the picture no matter what the circumstances. She is blood. You can't have them back once they are gone. Remember that
2006-08-26 02:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Memere RN/BA 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know!!!!!!!!!! There is a 9 year age difference ( i am older) between us. She and I have walked similar paths in life with men. I try to give her some "hind-site" information but she NEVER listens to it. What the hell? Don't get me wrong: I love her no matter what she does. I have to wonder about the trust issue with her because she has slept with married men and doesn't see a problem with it. I tell her that is not being part of "The Sisterhood". I warn her that the wrath of a scorned woman is something she never wants to experience. I just wanna shake her sometimes. Good luck with your sister.
2006-08-26 08:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by shugabam! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my sister are the same way, But she has an addiction problem and because of that, she never has any money..she also has 3 small kids. She wants everyone to feel sorry for her cause she cant pay her bills, etc. Our whole family has to help her. But my sister gets upset when when me or my brother get something new, like this computer..now when one of us gets something, we know she's gonna be mad, then she goes to my parents and says its not fair???? We finally had it out last night, because my parents were going to take her and her kids to six flags, and didn't want us to know..made me mad, I told her when she got those big income tax refunds from her kids daddy's why dont she take her kids and have fun..(cause my family went 2 yrs ago and we didn't invite them). I love my sister, but she has a way of turning things around to make everyone feel sorry for her. My kids were upset cause Paw-Paw was takin her kids and paying for it, but not taking them. Now she is sayin that now she knows, we just dont want her kids to be happy. If she would get off the drugs, cause thats where all her money goes,..I'll quit ranting...Just makes me mad. I am sick of her and her wining and her poor poor me I dont know what I'm gonna do
2006-08-26 10:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by SweetP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sister or a brother are Gifts from god. Imagine you are living without any sister or any brother it will be hard isn't it?? Succeeding the relationship with you sis or your brother reflect your relationship outside with other people. Succeed first with your own family in order to succeed other relationships...
Love is the clue...
2006-08-26 08:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by George 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have a sister with a bad character as well ; i hate her.... I just chose to not associate myself with her and her stupidity... untill she finally matures and grows up as a human being.. I will not attempt to get close.. Just wait till she matures or something.
2006-08-26 08:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by disturbedredrum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At times I get annoyed but I just have to control my feelings because I love her so much.
2006-08-26 08:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by Goldah N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister has been trying to f*ck me over since we were kids [jealousy] and I've taken it and taken it and taken it. I finally broke off all relations with her and now, altho I don't feel that great about it, at least I don't feel like such a sucker for her BS...
2006-08-26 08:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get highly annoyed with my sister for the same reason. It's her choices, though. She doesn't define you, and there are no rules about having to hang out with her.
2006-08-26 09:01:22 · answer #8 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha, i have a lil sis but in a way shes just like the way u describe
2006-08-26 08:45:20 · answer #9 · answered by Joktan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her out and plan a sisters fav things to do day out, tell her u love her and y want to see the best fr her and tell her you will alwasy be there fr her, thats it, and let the day end happily take it from there and see if she changes fr the better
2006-08-26 09:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by haboba13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋