Ok me and my ex are trying the whole friends thing but while talking she told me she still loved me. And also wanted me or her new bf to get her pregnant and shes only 15 and i just turned 17 and her bf is 21. what should I do?
2006-08-26 01:18:37 · 33 answers · asked by Unspoken 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well she told me after we had sex without protection. oh god dumb.
2006-08-26 01:28:16 · update #1
Run Forrest, Run
2006-08-26 01:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by Dee Dee 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Know what I think? You ought to run, first of all, and second, get into school. It sounds like you're in high school, so stay there until you graduate, get into a technical school or someplace where you can get a certificate. That will lead to a job. Get a job, save up your money, see the world a little. There is so much more to life when you are 17 than just having a girlfriend. You don't want to be 45, 50, sitting in front of the TV with a case of beer and 15 grandchildren, saying "Gee, is this all there is in life?" If her boyfriend is 21, he sounds like someone should have given him this advice too. They are losers but you don't have to be.
2006-08-26 01:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
RUN!!!!!
She sounds like a complete Idiot!!
why the hell does she want a baby at 15.
and why the hell would she want a seventeen year old boy to father her child. Your not even old enough to get a good paying factory job yet. If you get her pregnant you will be tied to her for the rest of your life whether you want to be or not. I think you should find yourself another girl. One with a little bit of intelligence.
this girl sounds like a complete fruit loop.
If you get her pregnant you will regret it . Your life will never be the same. And god forbid if you two start to not get along.
She will take you for child support , which you have to pay whether you have a job or not. Then there's the worry .. is she just leaving your baby with anyone who will take care of it for her so she can go out. Will another guy she's with be good to your baby. Will your parents wind up having to raise your child because she isn't capable of raising it herself. If you two wind up not liking each other after a while, is she going to keep you from seeing your child. You are crazy if you even think of having a baby . You need to be in a strong ,solid adult relationship that you really feel has a future before you even begin to think of having a child with someone. If you get her pregnant simply because she's dumb enough to think she wants a baby right now , your crazy. If you want a lot of complications in your young life... go ahead. but believe me you will regret it.
2006-08-26 01:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by mylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her parents! A it is illegal for a 21 year old to have sex with a 15 year old (actually it is statuatory rape). Also, no 15 year old should be purposely getting pregnant and having a child. Babies should not be having babies!
After you tell her parents, stay away from her. It is obvious that she is suffering from some emotional problems if she is in love with you, dating another man who is way too old for her, and trying to get pregnant at 15. Go to the library and find a nice quiet girl!
2006-08-26 01:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by Alice S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is 15 years old & still has alot to learn.she seems to care about you but the comment about she wants you or her new bf to get her pregant sounds sooo immature.Dont take that B.S. she needs to get herself together & know what she wants.bringing a child into this world should take some thought.I wish i had.soo my advice, run! dont be the teenage dad.it is hard work.youll be loosing out on so much.tell her you care for her too & this is not to hurt her but she needs to think clearly for the sake of her own future.picking a partner shouldnt be a guessing game.this child to be deserves better.
2006-08-26 01:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by doll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get a life. 15 year olds shouldn't be getting pregnant as she does NOT have the mental ability nor the money to provide for a child. Suggestion: tell her to back off and find another girl. That way you won't be stuck with a child yourself nor will you be stuck with support payments when you / her does not work out.
2006-08-26 01:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maury Povich and Jerry Springer called. They would be very honored if you three would be guests on his show. LOL.
Seriously, you need to run away from that as fast as you can. You two need to grow up first before you raise children. Live life a little. Go to college and become someone before delving into fatherhood.
2006-08-26 01:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nooooooooooooooooooo, run away!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You don't want to be a dad at 17 trust me. What are you thinking having unprotected sex with her she's only 15 and you should know better. She'll be popping kids out here there and everywhere b4 long. If i were you i'd leave the country!!!!!!
2006-08-26 02:09:13 · answer #8 · answered by EvieEvans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inform her she is way to young to have a kid......that her social life will be ruined....her life will be ruined.....she is not responsible enough to be a parent yet....and for her boyfriend who is 21? that is good for 5-10 years in prison, and he will learn what being on the other side of sex is all about there......and how nice anal is
2006-08-26 01:23:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should tell her mother you can help her stop a lot of trouble 15 is way to young at 17 you should better talk to her tell her what the hell is she doing good luck to you it's going to be hard for you but don't give up
2006-08-26 01:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is crazy!!!
RUN, RUN, RUN. In some states it is no legal to go out with someone who is younger than 16 or 18.
You have your life to live and will probably meet all kinds of girls later and you will be glad you just RAN out of that mess. Trust me JUST RUN.
2006-08-26 01:42:01 · answer #11 · answered by kinito_2000_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋