hi i had a missed miscarrige at 19w5d on the 5th april since then i am having realy bad axiety attacks that can leave a complete nervous and worrying wreck for days at a time
constanty thinking that something is going t happen to me my son or people around me(dying) and latley a feeling that im going to snap and lose it yet some days im fine.i can still work and fuction properly when i have these eposodes just all the nevous thoughts stay in the back of my head
has anyone suffered with anything like this after a miscarriage and how did you get through it
2006-08-26 01:17:00 · 8 answers · asked by pixieprue 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
i also experienced a late miscarriage, i wasn't quite as far along, i think i was about 17 or 18 weeks. i experienced a lot of deep depression and withdrawl which led to anxiety. you need to tell your doctor, they can prescribe something for you to help you overcome your tremendous loss. everything you are feeling is normal, and right now you need to help yourself and get treated. i kept myself around people that i knew loved me and cared for me, i read nurturing books like chicken soup, i kept a low easy profile for a while. time heals all wounds, you'll be okay. keep your head up and good luck to you. i am sincerely sorry for your loss.
2006-08-26 01:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by origchick 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, let me say how saddened I am about your heartbreaking loss.
Have you talked to your doctor about these feelings? You may need to have some grief counseling.
It will take a while for you to feel OK again. The pain of the loss never goes away, just becomes part of who you are. I know this because I have lost two of my baby sons. One of them was 8 months and two days old, and the other one was 11 months old. It was very difficult to let my other two boys even go out to play.
This tragedy may end up letting you help other Mom's who have suffered such a loss.
2006-08-26 01:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your lose and want to tell you that what you are feeling is normal. Please don't let it consume your life and affect your family and your son. You must be healthy for your son. I know that this lose is one of great magnitude and you must grieve anyway you feel fit. I am here to tell you that you are going to be ok. God is going to bless you with a conception and the joy of having a baby to complete your life and your family. If you feel your thoughts and anxiety are overwhelming it is best to reach out to your husband and your doctor for support. The best thing about having A TOMORROW is that you get a new beginning. It is going to be alright. May you have a blessed and reach out when you need help!
2006-08-26 01:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its sounds like the loss has tooken hold of you and that you may also maybe be suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Sit down with your doctos and lay everything out on the table for him about whats going on.
2006-08-26 13:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by jewell2578 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what you are going through is common most mothers who miscarrie have these panic attacks and can get angry and sometimes violent your best bet is to seek help from a friend or loved one and if that dont work see a shrink
2006-09-01 11:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So very sorry to hear this. You may want to see this video. It may bring you peace and comfort and reassurance. It's stunning.
2006-09-01 02:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by maximumreferrals 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I strongly suggest that you see your doctor and see what he/she suggests for you, because they might suggest that you see a therapist or they might recomend that you try some medication.
2006-08-26 02:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by ashleye114 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PLS SEEK TREATMENT... CONTACT YOUR PCP AND EXPRESS YOUR CONCERNS....
2006-09-01 16:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by casz1968 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋