Ok i told this gurl i liked her an she said that she jus wants to be frens.
Ok now reason this is how me an her r,90% of our conversations r on messenger the other 10% is on the phone(we are on vacation frum school).Ok when i told her she said that she knows she likes me but she doesnt kno if it is a like that can turn into love or jus like as a fren an she doesnt think it wud be fair if i hold on till she makes up her mind.With this me an her got closer talkin more on a relationship topic,then she went by her aunt an due to certain situations me an her werent talkin as much.
Then a day she came on an said she jus wanna be frens cause she already made up in her mind jus to be frens,an that she doesnt want me to hold on till she likes me as a boyfren as that cud take a long time,an also if later on she likes me then that wud be her fault.
Ok i still like her but i hav moved on.We still talk real gud.Now I wud like to kno can i do ANYTHING to let her see me more than a fren?
2006-08-26 01:11:32 · 10 answers · asked by gunit_to_the_end 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think if you just keep talking to her, then if she's going to see you differently it will just happen on its own and she'll let you know if/when it does. Unless and until that happens, you're going to have to let it go.
I know you said you've moved on... but you're still wanting to know if there's anything you can do to change the way she sees you. That's not moving on. You might have minimized your obsession a bit... but... you're still obviously thinking about it a lot.
Make yourself TRULY move on. Spend a little less time chatting online and a bit more time with other girls in person. Then you will be able to say that you've truly moved on and she will be able to see that too. I'm sure it will only improve you relationship with her if she's able to relax and know that you're not still sort of stalking her with a bf/gf interest and she'll feel like she can really trust you to care about what's best for HER.
Good luck to you, ever how it turns out!
2006-08-26 01:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by thegirlwholovedbrains 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Theres not much you can do really the girl has made up her mind so you have to move on else you will always be stuck in the past slobbering over something you cant have... she just wants to be friends and you should respect that!
2006-08-26 01:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by channy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG i am having problems reading this so i cant really give you any answer I'm sorry i will just need to take the points.
Maybe if your English was "gud" your "fren" would like you more.
2006-08-26 01:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by Caro 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try romancing her but not too much in case she is disgusted by it. If it doesn't work, move on and find other girls. Some people don't realise a good thing until it is gone.
2006-08-26 01:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by G K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you could have articulated it in proper English, I might have taken the time to read your question through.
2006-08-26 01:14:19 · answer #5 · answered by Sherlock 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No. You can't change other people. Just keeping being her friend and maybe someday it will change.
2006-08-26 01:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry honey you can't, at least she is your mate tho
2006-08-26 01:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's not gonna happen, she stated that clearly
2006-08-26 01:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by joanna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant do anything to change her mind....
2006-08-26 01:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
use spell check so i can understand your question then i will answer it
2006-08-26 01:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by emmamac14 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋