ok me and my ex have been at odds before i go on anymore i have to give some back story. me and the ex broke up last year and then got back together in march to the first week of may. that was the last time we talked till 2 weeks ago when she came back to tell me shes pregnant not mine by the way. anways at frist she was telling me how much she loves me then last week she told me she wanted me gone from her life cuz i confuse her mind and heart so we pretty much hated each other at the point. till today a friend of ours got us to talk and even tho we are with and love other people and blah blah i dont love my ex far from it but i got a weird feeling while talking to her and she was holding back and it made me uncomfortable. anyways does she really mean it she wants to be my friend? or does she want more? did i do the right thing by letting her back in my life? be honest.
2006-08-26 00:35:11 · 14 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yeah the father of the baby is still around and she says she loves me so much and happy to have him.
2006-08-26 00:40:26 · update #1
and we are 17(me) and 15(her) and the father of the baby is 19 or 20.
2006-08-26 00:43:07 · update #2
i feel shes jus playin!
either that or she needs a dad for her kid to be!
i dont feel u guys should get back if ur dicey about it..!
2006-08-26 00:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by bianca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's using you. The father of the child won't hang around to long. She'll need you as a back up plan. Anyway why is she getting pregnant at 15 she's still achild herself. Run far away or you're gonna be stuck with the child and not long after that she'll make sure she gets pregnant with your child. and you sound like a nice guy I've got a feeling you won't run. Good luck
2006-08-26 07:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by sophisticated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being played BIGTIME..... shes keeping you around , just in case.........I'm guessing here , but I 'm thinking the father of that child NOT so interested in her , but she needs $$$$$$$$$ from somewhere ,,,,,,if you let her back in,,,,,,kick her right back out , she's in big trouble,she's in for so much heartbreak and now her life , since shes pregnant will never be HERS again , you're both too young to deal with that . You didn't get in her in that posistion, let her ,the daddy, and her parents deal with it. RUN don't walk , and NEVER look back . You have no reason to.
2006-08-26 07:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by ridingthestorm_out 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows......she's pregnant now and emotional and probably confused and scared. you guys had a relationship....you loved and cared for eachother. maybe now that she is pregnant she really does just need a friend and b/c you had a relationship she feels she can trust you and lean on you a little. if you care about her at all and think that you two can really just be friends welcome her back in your life. if not, be honest and tell her so there's no confusion between the two of you.
2006-08-26 07:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no harm in just trying to be friends. Just don't get caught up if she starts talking about missing you, loving you, don't know why you two didn't work out...stuff like that. Just keep it on a friend level at all times. DON'T GET CAUGHT UP!!!
2006-08-26 08:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by livetoromance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!
You both wanted to know if the "spark" was still there.
If you guys carry this much resentment towards each other its best to keep your distance from each other.
As for the pregnancy, something just like that happened to my brother & his ex. He left her & didn't look back!
2006-08-26 07:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by lostintheclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing but dont try to get to chummy though. I think your ex just needs a good friend right now.
2006-08-26 07:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes She's nuts. Stay far far far far far far far far far far AWAY! Get the point. YOu will be So very sorry if you have anything to do with this person. Lots of good fish in the sea elsewhere.
2006-08-26 07:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with just being friends, just let you guys be friends, and then if she wants to be more then that, tell her straight up ur not intrested.
2006-08-26 07:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run for god sakes RUN dont look back before u get back in her web. and end up with a lil jr with her.
2006-08-26 08:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by Unspoken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋