my bf hasnt been coming over latley we live right next to each other and i asked him y he hasnt been coming over and he said ive been busy ok ok so the next day he's playing basketball thats more important than me?? should i break up with him!!??
2006-08-26 00:31:45 · 31 answers · asked by foshizRAWR 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he SUCKS real bad at basketball!!!!
2006-08-26 00:36:10 · update #1
he's like a 6 year old he still hasnt even kissed me we've been going out for 2 years!!!!!
2006-08-26 00:39:35 · update #2
6 other guys have asked me out
2006-08-26 00:40:25 · update #3
don't break up with him, just see other guys. geez, you're way too young to be exclusive... you have no idea what commitment means. date a bunch of guys, have fun, and PLEASE let anxiety about commitment rear its ugly head in at least college, but hopefully even after that.
2006-08-26 00:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
not necesserily...i've been with my bf for 2.5 years now, and 6 months in we went 4 weeks without seeing each other. Still don't know why..he doesn't either, but he probably just needed some time to think things through. It may be the case with ur bf too. Give it time. If it continues for a long while, it's something you'll have to think through.
2006-08-26 07:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for it, he is moving away from you. Try to let him go, the more you hold on the harder it will be in the end. Either he's bored or interested elsewhere. Remember, his buddies unless attached themselves will pull on him to be one of the guys so guess what position you take, back seat. Try to remember guys have a limited attention span. Good Luckl
2006-08-26 07:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by val s. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only ur egos saying u to brackup, do u feel that a man who loves u, should only think about u, or roam around u, or dream about u, or do everything for u. Its impossible, and even u cant do this for him, only becoz we have a life and its system that could not be changed completely.Ur love can be important for u, but it can not be everything for u.
2006-08-26 07:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by Ashok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, thats part of the game, i think that you should start to go do things with out him and realize that he needs space so do you, and that unless you feel that you are equal to basketball, not to stress over it, it could have been a girl and then i would stress
2006-08-26 07:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u asked him and he is just saying he is busy then you have no option but to accept his reason... i suggest you give him some space, try to develop another interest or hobby to make urself busy too.. keep in mind that men in general hate to be chased... so let him do the chasing (that is if he is still interested)..
2006-08-26 07:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by sen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh. tell him to go away - PLEASE - do not give him the pleasure of your lovely company. Instead, find somone who actually cares - what a difference this can make to a girls life!
Take it from an expert! Wink.
2006-08-26 07:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by cheeky_beth_62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, basketball is more important. Sorry
2006-08-26 07:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by descartesprotege 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
start ignoring him so he knows what its like! hang out with good looking guys to cos that will wind him up!! then give him the choice spend time with me or get lost!!
2006-08-26 07:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think this is a reason to break up???
r u just finding reasons to drop him down..........
u better understand r u trying to over-rule him or something
dont do that leave him alone 4 some time...............
2006-08-26 07:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by Manu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋