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i hav this fear that if i fall in love i will get hurt, and that is stopping me from going out with anyone. i keep thinking that all guys will cheat on me and leave me and hurt me. i don't know wat to do cos i can't get this fear out of my head and i'm starting to feel kinda lonely. Wat do i do?

2006-08-26 00:10:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

i am 21 years old

2006-08-26 00:37:18 · update #1

12 answers

Just go out with no expectations at the moment. Get to know guys first before latching onto them. Be friends first.

2006-08-26 00:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0 0

as long as this fear is in ur head 7 u keep letting it control u like this ur going 2 b alone 4 a long time , so dont let it control u , its most likely going 2 b there but thats fine , but dont let it turn u into a bitter old woman thats never tried anything or gone anywhere.now there will b times it may come in handy so dont get rid of it completely

2006-08-26 02:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by superstar 2 · 0 0

I wanna tell u something when u r with ur boy u feel that ur the happiest person on earth...everything is beautiful...and when u leave each other u'll be so ****** hurt...then after a while u will forget him...another guy will come again...bla bla bla...u'll gain experience...until u know how to treat a guy...Then the right guy will come at the right time....

2006-08-26 00:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by A... 2 · 0 0

gooooooooooo and have some me time i think...nails ,hair styled,
and then when ur feeling glam go out with the girls and raise ur confidents.... its hard but u need 2 let ur fears out and say 2 ur self ok i might get hurt but im not goin 2 let it stop me 4rm having a good time and if it doent work out theres plenty of better guys out there 4 u....u have 2 go through plenty of bad ones 2 get 2 a good one ...
good luck hun

2006-08-26 00:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Maria N 2 · 0 0

In order to appreciate and love life you have to experience it. The same goes for love. No one goes through life without experiencing heartbreak; it's a part of life. It's one of those things in life that you are suppose to learn from. But how are you suppose to find the love of your life if you don't allow yourself to fall in love? Don't you think you deserve to love and to be loved?

2006-08-26 00:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by livetoromance 2 · 0 0

Dont run from friendship,on the contrary embrace them,don't be in ahurry to commit to anyone until you take time to know what thier mission and motivation is, pray ..it helps..

2006-08-26 00:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by Covenant Family Network Intl 2 · 0 0

well not all guys cheat but if you like someone and it turns into love if u want them dose it matter if he comes home to u

2006-08-26 01:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by MR. 215 1 · 0 0

no no no no
u have the wrong desiccion
try not to have any love for one or two month

2006-08-26 00:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by ramintwo 2 · 0 0

stop worring so much ,, lifes to short,,,,, if he does then he wasn't for you ,,,, gotta learn to trust till you have reason not too.

2006-08-26 00:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by Rooster 3 · 0 0

maybe you should turn to lesbianism, then you wont have to deal with any guys

2006-08-26 00:16:58 · answer #10 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0 0

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