Why are dads such a s s holes?

Question

I just woke up cuz my dad was asking me what time i had football practice. But i had to do some work yesterday after school and then he started yelling "WHAT!!!! YOU DONT KNOW WHAT TIME YOU HAVE FOOTBALL PRACTICE????" i was like "shut up" in my mind but you know i cant say that but why are dads like this? I just did'nt know

i think there was supposed to be practice today but i forgot what time (in my question im talking about todays practice)

Answer 1

he is like that because he has your best interest in mind, perhaps you should stop fighting what he asks, and in turn he will stop asking,

but yes all dads that care are the purest form of AS-S HOLE
so love every minute, know that he loves the Sh_it out of you, lol

Answer 2

Your Dad is like that because he loves you. I know you probably have heard this before, but realistically there are millions of children in our country and across the world that are growing up in sinlge parent families (primarily run by women) and do not have that father figure to look up too. Your Dad wants what is best for you, and he just wants you to be aware of your obligations. His responsibility is to love, respect, and provide for you; in addition to teaching you the things you will need to be successful when you become an adult. And you will live as an adult much longer than you will live as a teenager. . .and this world is not such a forgiving place if we go into it without knowing and understanding the "hidden rules" like being aware of your time commitments and keeping appointments, etc. Your Dad shouldn't have yelled at you, yes, but give him a break also. And if it really bothers you then talk to him and let him know that yelling effects you negatively and is there another way. . .he may not change, and that 's okay. But he isn't an a**hole if that is all that he is doing that causes you to feel bad. Is he there? Does he provide for you financially and emotionally? Is there food in the fridge? Clothes in your closet? You are blessed if you answered yes to all these questions.

Answer 3

You question is a bit difficult to understand. Perhaps your father is worried that you are showing enough responsibility. He is trying to help you become a man that is dependable and shows up to places on time ready to go. Or he may have wished he was a football player when he was young and is living his childhood over through you. But hey I don't know maybe he is just a a$$ hole. but give him the benifit doubt, I am sure he actually cares about you and wants the best for you but he was brought up in a society that doesn't allow men to express their real feelings without making them look weak.

Answer 4

Dads are that way because sometimes they see that your following the same steps and make the same mistakes that the made when they were young. They see a lot of themselves in you and manytimes they are seeing that your growing up so fast and know that the time will come when you will no longer be around. They feel like there is so little time and that there is too much to teach you like responsibility etc. sometimes they get so tied up in trying to show you whats right that they forget to say that they just love you. At times they see you growing so fast that they forget that the mind has not caught up to the body yet (maturity) sometimes we focus so much on the negative part of our dad that we dont even think of what it is that he's trying to teach you. sometimes we nag at our kids too much that they dont even listen anymore it just goes through one ear and out the other. At times we know what we are suppose to do and we fail to do it and then we dont want to hear it. instead of trying to stay a step ahead of the game. knowing what it is that our parents expect from us and doing it. Dad's are not only trying to prepare for the world they are also trying to make you a better father when you grow up and have kids. Dont forget that you also have good and bad parts of your dad right down to the DNA. Its not your dad's fault that he the way that he is. He's just a finished product of what his dad made out of him. and if there are any bad parts its up to you to break that cycle so that when you have kids it does not repeat itself through you. Be patient and dont forget that you are the flesh of his flesh and the blood of his blood. do not harden you heart towards your dad or your will pay a heavy price with your own kids. im talking from experience. good luck and be patient. dont for get that no matter how mean he may be it does not mean that he does not love you maybe his dad never showed him how to express it.

Answer 5

sometimes dads are "not so kind" due to how they were raised, sometimes it's b/c they have never been taught how to communicate or can't show how they feel in a calm, rational way whatever the reason(s) u need to try to sit down w/ your dad & explain to him how u feel when he uses such a strong, loud tone w/ u & ask him to put himself in your shoes-maybe this will help him to realize that yelling or name calling aren't supportive ways of helping u to become a thriving adult in today's society-good luck & keep in mind that nor all dads are like this & u are not to blame for how your dad acts

Answer 6

probably he's just angry because you did not take the responsibilty to remember your own football practise. or explain to him that you had some work to do. if you really hate it that he yells at you, why not talk to him instead of calling him an a'hole. tell him that you would really appreciate him talking in a soft tone instead of just yelling his head off. he's still your dad no matter what. if you're more responsible i'm sure he'll respect you in return too.

Answer 7

Your dad is trying to do the best for you.And he's just reminding you about practice if he did'nt he, would'nt care about you now would he.All parents love thier children.

Answer 8

My father is not an asshole. He is actually a lot of fun to be around. My father and I spend a lot of time together even though I am in my 30's. He is weird to a fault, some times he is infuriating, likes to spend my money and runs out of gas so I have to push him home. But He is my father and he loves me.

You should maybe just get over your mad then deal with your father.

Answer 9

I'm assuming you're male and quite young. Your dad isn't bad, he cares for you and obviously takes an interest in your life and what you enjoy doing! Imagine if he didnt care what time it was and wouldnt take you.
Right now, no matter what anyone says you'll still think he's an idiot but you'll really appreciate him and his input when you get older.

Answer 10

because kids like you are painful, he earns money for the roof over your head, the food you eat , the cloths you wear, he has to make sure all the bills are paid , you mum is happy all the kids are happy , your education is going well,
you live a life with out pressure or are you required to do much and when your asked to do one Small thing you dont do it, nor are you particularly thank full he busts his balls for you