2006-08-25 23:48:24 · 36 answers · asked by elampo1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find another girl.
2006-08-25 23:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by JeffE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did that really happen?!! I would go fokan mental....I have never done any of this so I don't know. A suggestion is this:
I would tranquilize her with sleeping pills in her wine in the evening, take photos of her asleep with dark glasses on...post the pics on the web and sign her up to the sleaziest dating site making sure her number is given over too...
Then I would cut off her hair in her sleep, her eyebrows too, nick her clothes (or burn them), sabotage her email and send messages to everyone as herself (especially work, and also her lover). Of course, thiswouldn'tmake you feel better, just slightly more even, what a waste of time though!
2006-08-26 00:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by syelark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is definatly NOT the girl for you. Be glad you found out about it now. after the marriage is not the time you want to find out your wife has a guy on the side.
She is not worth a good guy. You need to move on. You deserve 100% trust with a woman
2006-08-25 23:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm that's an interesting way to put it and a bit telling. What do you mean when you say "wanted to marry" you don't say "was going to marry" or "engaged to". Was she even aware of your feelings for her? Are you even going out with her, or do you just admire her from afar? Naturally she's been getting on with her own life. Good for her. I think you should too.
2006-08-26 03:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by Runnerbean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you such a dump that you coun't come to know that your girl is some other guy for last 3 years. Now you have only 1 option left that is F U C K and forget.
2006-08-25 23:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away she obviously doesnt feel the same for you as you to towards her. If shes cheating on you now she will continue to do so. Your lucky you found out now before marriage as your life with her would of been based on a lie. You deserve respect a and someone to treat you the same as you treat them. You will find some one to love you and be faithful.
2006-08-25 23:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple you don't marry her, especially as you are clearly not sure or you wouldn't be asking the question. You need to ask yourself if this is the kind of relationship shock that you could recover from if not, you need to review your options and get out.
2006-08-27 08:00:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to be 100% sure .. face her with the facts and kisten to her excuses .. who knows .. she may have been threatened .. if you are quite sure .. you may quit the marriage .. and drag her to once and for good sexual relation .. as a simple revenge .. if you caan;t do that .. the best is to let her know that you are sleeping with another woman to feel the same pain or maybe worse ..
2006-08-26 00:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by ohwaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone shouts, Find another girl, but they dont know you.
You may be the kind of man who does not mind his partner having flings with other men.
As she is doing this now, it is fairly obvious that she will do it forever. If you can live with that you can live with her, and him, and the next one and anothet and.....
If not, drop her like a hot brick.
2006-08-25 23:56:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd cry. A lot. Then walk away. If I really loved her, I'd still want to be friends.
It's hell being in love with someone who's in love with someone else. Been there, done that, got the t-shirt.
2006-08-26 00:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by philr999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋